No.Danny
Master Don Juan
How often do you guys initiate. How often do you wait for the girl to initiate. Does it really matter who text last?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
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Initiating through text
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Rainman4707
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Well I don't really like texting as it's to time consuming & apparently it's not good to text to much. I suppose the more you text, the more chance you could slip up. Although I can kind of see womens point of view that they can get to know someone a little more if he texts her.
I keep texting limited. I'll get her number, arrange date as soon as I can..if a few days go by then I'll text her asking "whats up" & tell her a short funny story...I do this so she dose'nt forget me. If she initates text...I like to keep it short as I can unless I have'nt texted her in a few days (in that case i'll use same method "whats up" then tell her something funny that has happened to me recently) if I've been seeing her regular I don't mind going a week without any contact.
Put it this way. I wouldn't like to be the one who has to initiate most of the time as it gives her higher value
I keep texting limited. I'll get her number, arrange date as soon as I can..if a few days go by then I'll text her asking "whats up" & tell her a short funny story...I do this so she dose'nt forget me. If she initates text...I like to keep it short as I can unless I have'nt texted her in a few days (in that case i'll use same method "whats up" then tell her something funny that has happened to me recently) if I've been seeing her regular I don't mind going a week without any contact.
Put it this way. I wouldn't like to be the one who has to initiate most of the time as it gives her higher value
I see it as the man's duty to initiate first. A lot of guys will say if she's interested, she will initiate first, and make plans, etc, but I've never really liked inaction in this case. There's some truth to "if she's interested, she will initiate" though. But you shouldn't wait for it. If she likes you, she will invite you out to do things sometimes, but so many girls expect guys to be the ones to make plans, so they just wait on us to do it.
As for who texts last, I really don't think it matters.
As for who texts last, I really don't think it matters.
Yeah, stop doing that. Text her to set up plans. A conversation over text every once in a while isn't the worst possible thing you could do, although it's not recommended. If she had fun on your date, she won't forget you. Texting her just so she doesn't is a waste of time. This, in itself, is like placing women on a pedestal. You put way too much value on her, if you're afraid of her forgetting you. She "forgets" you, you forget her number. Plain and simple.Rainman4707 said: