"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Initiating Contact with an Ex ever a good idea?

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After a chick initiated a break up w/me I IMMEDIATELY said "this is for the good" and cut off ALL CONTACT. The reason why she broke up with me was because I was a total d*ck to her and constantly played cat and mouse games.

Both of us have an amazing amount of pride. In fact, she probably has more pride than any girl I've met. I don't want to play games with her anymore and she knows for sure I'm not a wimp.


Now I have seen her twice since then in FORMAL, BUSINESS settings. Based off of body language she definitely still digs me.

For a girl like this is it OK for the guy to initiate sexual contact? Usually she would do all of the chasing but I fear that I have been so cold, cut off and she has so much pride that me making a slight concession by initiating contact could break the ice.

My JERK instincts, however, tell me this is NOT THE RIGHT MOVE because it could be showing weakness. Again, I have not initiated ANY contact on my own for this girl in any way shape or form for 1.5 months.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why would you even try? So she can do the same thing again? Thats sadistic.
 
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1) She's f*cking hot.

2) She's intelligent and has good ltr potential.

3) She is self-respecting to dump my ass for playing games too much (which makes me like her even more).
 
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You mean masochistic. Sadistic would be calling her up, making her think you love her, and banging the hell out of her. Then you never stop having sex with the other women in your life for her sake, and make sure she knows that, crushing her fragile pride. That would be sadistic. I do sh!t like that all the time.
 
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If she dropped your ass because you're an immature sh!t then the best thing is to learn growth and be single.

Chicks become a part of our lives after we've become our best selves. Always.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bible_Belt said:
You mean masochistic. Sadistic would be calling her up, making her think you love her, and banging the hell out of her. Then you never stop having sex with the other women in your life for her sake, and make sure she knows that, crushing her fragile pride. That would be sadistic. I do sh!t like that all the time.
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Yep right on the nose. I meant masochistic. I'm drinking so brain cells are on shut down mode.

Mb. There are millions of women who have the three qualities you just described. No need to reuse.
 
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