"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Initiating Contact with an Ex ever a good idea?

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After a chick initiated a break up w/me I IMMEDIATELY said "this is for the good" and cut off ALL CONTACT. The reason why she broke up with me was because I was a total d*ck to her and constantly played cat and mouse games.

Both of us have an amazing amount of pride. In fact, she probably has more pride than any girl I've met. I don't want to play games with her anymore and she knows for sure I'm not a wimp.


Now I have seen her twice since then in FORMAL, BUSINESS settings. Based off of body language she definitely still digs me.

For a girl like this is it OK for the guy to initiate sexual contact? Usually she would do all of the chasing but I fear that I have been so cold, cut off and she has so much pride that me making a slight concession by initiating contact could break the ice.

My JERK instincts, however, tell me this is NOT THE RIGHT MOVE because it could be showing weakness. Again, I have not initiated ANY contact on my own for this girl in any way shape or form for 1.5 months.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why would you even try? So she can do the same thing again? Thats sadistic.
 
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1) She's f*cking hot.

2) She's intelligent and has good ltr potential.

3) She is self-respecting to dump my ass for playing games too much (which makes me like her even more).
 
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You mean masochistic. Sadistic would be calling her up, making her think you love her, and banging the hell out of her. Then you never stop having sex with the other women in your life for her sake, and make sure she knows that, crushing her fragile pride. That would be sadistic. I do sh!t like that all the time.
 
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If she dropped your ass because you're an immature sh!t then the best thing is to learn growth and be single.

Chicks become a part of our lives after we've become our best selves. Always.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bible_Belt said:
You mean masochistic. Sadistic would be calling her up, making her think you love her, and banging the hell out of her. Then you never stop having sex with the other women in your life for her sake, and make sure she knows that, crushing her fragile pride. That would be sadistic. I do sh!t like that all the time.
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Yep right on the nose. I meant masochistic. I'm drinking so brain cells are on shut down mode.

Mb. There are millions of women who have the three qualities you just described. No need to reuse.
 
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