"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Initial aggression... I just don't think I have it.

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I have been reflecting on my past and I have noticed that I might have lost numerous opportunities because I didn't followed through initial interest. Now don't get me wrong, I never had real attraction for these types of gals (ugs, whales, elder women, even gays *YUCK*, etc) so I never was aggressive and let them eventually get tired of waiting ( some might still be hoping one day I'll actually turn to them). Its just that for some reason the girls I fancy just aren't interested in me *tsk tsk*.

So this is where I need your help...

I'm looking for god dam aggressive women. No I don't mean aggressive as ***** behavior necessary but I mean as they go for what they want. Like a hunter amazonian that wants to corner you and r@pe the bejesus out of your joystick? Am I just going delusional or do these women actually do exist? (if so how snd where the hell to get them?)

I keep waiting and waiting and waiting for someone to eat this cake and nothing... It pisses me off sometimes when I see other girls with other guys and I go to myself.. "wait a minute, I'M MUCH BETTER LOOKING THAN HIM!?!?"

Is there something wrong with this type of behavior? Am I acting like a chick? If so, how to correct it?

I understand girls just don't have balls and are extremely scarred of rejection but my sister actually was the one in pursuing her relationship with her current bf (super embarrassing my younger sis had already had 2 relationships and I'm still waiting to swipe the V on my hand lol).

This is nothing serious but just a thought I had on my mind. Now I'm still improving myself and working out even harder (yes till I look like a ripped model) so hopefully some broad will finally slam herself against me. Oh btw, I did a major change on my wardrobe and I have something golden coming to store soon ;)

What do you all think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Leopold said:
I have been reflecting on my past and I have noticed that I might have lost numerous opportunities because I didn't followed through initial interest. Now don't get me wrong, I never had real attraction for these types of gals (ugs, whales, elder women, even gays *YUCK*, etc) so I never was aggressive and let them eventually get tired of waiting ( some might still be hoping one day I'll actually turn to them). Its just that for some reason the girls I fancy just aren't interested in me *tsk tsk*.

So this is where I need your help...

I'm looking for god dam aggressive women. No I don't mean aggressive as ***** behavior necessary but I mean as they go for what they want. Like a hunter amazonian that wants to corner you and r@pe the bejesus out of your joystick? Am I just going delusional or do these women actually do exist? (if so how snd where the hell to get them?)

I keep waiting and waiting and waiting for someone to eat this cake and nothing... It pisses me off sometimes when I see other girls with other guys and I go to myself.. "wait a minute, I'M MUCH BETTER LOOKING THAN HIM!?!?"

Is there something wrong with this type of behavior? Am I acting like a chick? If so, how to correct it?

I understand girls just don't have balls and are extremely scarred of rejection but my sister actually was the one in pursuing her relationship with her current bf (super embarrassing my younger sis had already had 2 relationships and I'm still waiting to swipe the V on my hand lol).

This is nothing serious but just a thought I had on my mind. Now I'm still improving myself and working out even harder (yes till I look like a ripped model) so hopefully some broad will finally slam herself against me. Oh btw, I did a major change on my wardrobe and I have something golden coming to store soon ;)

What do you all think?
One of my best friends wanted the hunter amazonian type and he turned out to be gay. I'm totally serious :)

Men should be the ones hunting! You need to change your mindset if you know for sure you're not gay.
 

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alpha_ash said:
One of my best friends wanted the hunter amazonian type and he turned out to be gay. I'm totally serious :)

Men should be the ones hunting! You need to change your mindset if you know for sure you're not gay.
FVCK that SlHT MAN!! LOL

I rather cut my ding dong than have a guy sucking on it. YUUCKK!!! I refuse to that!!!

I just don't know, I just like built up chicks if you know what I mean, like Jamie Eason.

If so how or what are the right approaches to change this mindset? I really need help; like if I dont get initial eye contact I go "NO, I'M NOT TAKING A NO." instead of backing off.

My mind is just sinking into a deep abyss like if I was going to fall on the miserable and depressed time I used to live before I discovered this site. I just don't want to sink back in the dark side; I just want to splash on it.
 

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Also, I think I'm becoming self aware of my personality... and thus creating a new form of an introvert. Which I really don't know if its going to backfire at me since I'm not being myself pretty much and I become very self aware.

I used to be very boring, depressed and self aware in the past and that never got me no where. Now I'm becoming the same only difference is that I look a hell more attractive but that doesn't help since girls pretty much don't approach.

I'm... so confused. I think I'm going to plan and seek professional help :/
 

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Leopold said:
Also, I think I'm becoming self aware of my personality... and thus creating a new form of an introvert. Which I really don't know if its going to backfire at me since I'm not being myself pretty much and I become very self aware.

I used to be very boring, depressed and self aware in the past and that never got me no where. Now I'm becoming the same only difference is that I look a hell more attractive but that doesn't help since girls pretty much don't approach.

I'm... so confused. I think I'm going to plan and seek professional help :/
Do the approaching. When you're walking, try to make eye contact with women. If eyes lock, then smile and keep walking.

Build up to actually stopping her and asking a question. Then walk off.

Keep building to actual conversations. Confidence will come with practice.

Then finally, grab a number and just invite her to do something with you later that day.


EDIT: ALSO, hang with your bros! Guys make life easier for each other.

EDIT2:

The friend I mentioned, I think he knew all along he was gay but pretending not to be because he was religious and afraid that we would hate him for it. Several of our friends even said he is gay even though he wouldn't stop talking about *****.

It did sort of come as a surprise to ME because whenever we were hanging out, he was always talking about girls and *****. I remember thinking to myself, relax tiger, you have all the time in the world to snatch as many as you can. lol. Now all he talks about is all the dudes he is dating and you can imagine my reaction, "alright bro relax."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Leopold said:
I'm looking for god dam aggressive women. No I don't mean aggressive as ***** behavior necessary but I mean as they go for what they want. Like a hunter amazonian that wants to corner you and r@pe the bejesus out of your joystick? Am I just going delusional or do these women actually do exist? (if so how and where the hell to get them?)
Every woman who has ever tried to rape me has been fat. :eek:
 
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