"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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****inh Messed Up On My First Night Clubbing

Rint

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I'm in china and under aged clubbing is cool, but here's the story. I went up and met 2 chicks at the school i'm studying at and one is a party animal. So she took me and the other girl to a club. Their Hb7s, and Hb 6, but we got lost and met up with her friends. 1 dude and 2 girls one who was HB 9 easy, and the other HB6. I bought HB9 a drink cause apparently drinking and smoking underaged is cool, even though i didn't feel to good about being around all that ****, while we were lost the 2 girls started getting annoyed by me. I was being ****ing annoying and sarcastic. I was cracking jokes about how chinese guys were whistling at them. By the end of the night they were fed up with me and hung out with the other guy. I am so ****ing disappointed in myself. I wasn't the Alpha male of this party. I wanted to b the reason the HB7 and HB6 had a good time. In the end i got to dance with the HB 9, and damn can she dance, but then this guy picked her up and did some **** to her drink so we had to get her the **** out. The other guy was hella popular. I was running high on confidence and the guy liked me alot and the 2 chicks that where my HB7's friends were cool with me, but thats cause they didn't know me for a while like my HB7 girls. It was a good experience, but tell me where i ****ed up. **** i'm so hung over it. That guy was the alpha not me last night, and it seems the longer girls know me the less they want. HELP!

Thanx Rint
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChrizZ

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sounds to me like you tried to impress them by trying to be funny and to get their attention. Don´t worry about it. They don´t reject you as a person, they reject the way you acted. Fix it and you´ll do better the next time.
 

onyx

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help with what you havn't given us anything..if you try to be funny anf force it, then you'll come over as a idiot. just try and relax next time
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gmillar

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Realize this: in the long run, it doesn't matter. Everything is just a learning experience, it sounds like you learned.
 
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