"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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****inh Messed Up On My First Night Clubbing

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I'm in china and under aged clubbing is cool, but here's the story. I went up and met 2 chicks at the school i'm studying at and one is a party animal. So she took me and the other girl to a club. Their Hb7s, and Hb 6, but we got lost and met up with her friends. 1 dude and 2 girls one who was HB 9 easy, and the other HB6. I bought HB9 a drink cause apparently drinking and smoking underaged is cool, even though i didn't feel to good about being around all that ****, while we were lost the 2 girls started getting annoyed by me. I was being ****ing annoying and sarcastic. I was cracking jokes about how chinese guys were whistling at them. By the end of the night they were fed up with me and hung out with the other guy. I am so ****ing disappointed in myself. I wasn't the Alpha male of this party. I wanted to b the reason the HB7 and HB6 had a good time. In the end i got to dance with the HB 9, and damn can she dance, but then this guy picked her up and did some **** to her drink so we had to get her the **** out. The other guy was hella popular. I was running high on confidence and the guy liked me alot and the 2 chicks that where my HB7's friends were cool with me, but thats cause they didn't know me for a while like my HB7 girls. It was a good experience, but tell me where i ****ed up. **** i'm so hung over it. That guy was the alpha not me last night, and it seems the longer girls know me the less they want. HELP!

Thanx Rint
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sounds to me like you tried to impress them by trying to be funny and to get their attention. Don´t worry about it. They don´t reject you as a person, they reject the way you acted. Fix it and you´ll do better the next time.
 
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help with what you havn't given us anything..if you try to be funny anf force it, then you'll come over as a idiot. just try and relax next time
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Realize this: in the long run, it doesn't matter. Everything is just a learning experience, it sounds like you learned.
 
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