"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Walked into the supermarket doing my meditation. I feel my **** ****ing the world while in there.
walked out with some icecream and two aboriginal girls walked past. Locked eye contact with one and when i was walking past I gave her a nod. I heard her giggling as I walked past her. I didn't smile at her and don't smile at all.

What does it usually mean if the girl starts laughing after you looked at her? I get this all the time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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synecdoche

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Who cares?

Next time strike up a conversation with her if you want to know if she's attracted to you or not.

Stop analyzing and start taking action. No need for mental masturbation.
 

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What does it usually mean if the girl starts laughing after you looked at her? I get this all the time.
She's either laughing at you or she found you cute. Unfortunately I'll have to tell you that the first possibility is way more likely than the second.
 

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Walked into the supermarket doing my meditation. I feel my **** ****ing the world while in there.
walked out with some icecream and two aboriginal girls walked past. Locked eye contact with one and when i was walking past I gave her a nod. I heard her giggling as I walked past her. I didn't smile at her and don't smile at all.

What does it usually mean if the girl starts laughing after you looked at her? I get this all the time.
You nod
This is a hint that you already fcked her in your mind
Next thing you give her a cigarette
 

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Don't get all wound up on this. Way back in school, this happened to me. A friend of mine who was standing nearby told me that the one girl said to the other " he is really cute, I would do him" the other was laughing about her comment. I was thinking the complete opposite. I zeroed in and banged her two weeks later.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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