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I am a hairstylist and still in hair school, and being the only male in my school, it has given me a great outlet to really get to listen and learn a few little quirks here and there just women tend to only talk about around their friends, and i figure i could share a bit of it on here, and i hope it helps.
The thing i notice the most about the women at my school is EVERY single woman there, and i mean every single, that has a boyfriend does nothing but complain about them. They never have anything good to say about them, its always complaint after complaint, threatening to leave them, saying they "could do better", and just about anything else you can imagine a woman saying. A lot of guys i know would ask "well why would they keep him around?" Well, ive noticed a common theme here....
All of the women who ***** about their boyfriends being ugly, losers etc have one thing in common: In just about every instance, the woman has her man under control, and i think that speaks volumes as to what a lot of women are looking for. They are obviously willing to sacrifice value and stick with people that dissatisfy them because these men will stroke their ego, pay for things and generally bow to their every command so long as a sexual favor is dangled over their head. So when you see the attractive woman with the ugly guy who seems to be a douchebag, keep in mind that hes probably her little slave when they get home, regardless of how much he shows his ass in public.
This also speaks volumes about the women themselves. Now i know of most of their boyfriends or have seen them, and i can agree they tend to be pretty much bums, but i also think it has to be taken into consideration that at least a few of them probably arent bums and are decent guys whos girlfriends STILL come to school and talk **** about them undeservedly, obviously to get attention. That is a sad fact, but when women get in a group, negative things usually arise out of it. To be honest, its rare to hear a positive thing from a group of women. Ive sat in my classes during break hours countless times and overheard some wretched things from these little groups.
Ive veered off of my point though. My point in the whole women sticking with bums because of control issues thing was to prove a point. I know a lot of you are probably pretty attractive people, whether its physically or emotionally or both, but you struggle with dates and you wonder why. A lot of it, especially at younger ages has to do with the woman wanting control. If youre a nice looking guy and have your own free will and ideals, then believe it or not, a decent amount of women tend to shy away from that leaving you to blame yourself and wonder "why why why." It is a shame but i know a lot of attractive guys who cant pull women and they suffer in the self esteem department because of it, but in reality, theres nothing wrong with them, its the controlling women who wouldnt go near someone who has enough self-value to not be controlled, thats not in their best interest.
This is just one of the many things ive noticed, and ill post a lot more. Hope this was helpful, post some replies and tell me if its helped or if you disagree. Thanks!
I am a hairstylist and still in hair school, and being the only male in my school, it has given me a great outlet to really get to listen and learn a few little quirks here and there just women tend to only talk about around their friends, and i figure i could share a bit of it on here, and i hope it helps.
The thing i notice the most about the women at my school is EVERY single woman there, and i mean every single, that has a boyfriend does nothing but complain about them. They never have anything good to say about them, its always complaint after complaint, threatening to leave them, saying they "could do better", and just about anything else you can imagine a woman saying. A lot of guys i know would ask "well why would they keep him around?" Well, ive noticed a common theme here....
All of the women who ***** about their boyfriends being ugly, losers etc have one thing in common: In just about every instance, the woman has her man under control, and i think that speaks volumes as to what a lot of women are looking for. They are obviously willing to sacrifice value and stick with people that dissatisfy them because these men will stroke their ego, pay for things and generally bow to their every command so long as a sexual favor is dangled over their head. So when you see the attractive woman with the ugly guy who seems to be a douchebag, keep in mind that hes probably her little slave when they get home, regardless of how much he shows his ass in public.
This also speaks volumes about the women themselves. Now i know of most of their boyfriends or have seen them, and i can agree they tend to be pretty much bums, but i also think it has to be taken into consideration that at least a few of them probably arent bums and are decent guys whos girlfriends STILL come to school and talk **** about them undeservedly, obviously to get attention. That is a sad fact, but when women get in a group, negative things usually arise out of it. To be honest, its rare to hear a positive thing from a group of women. Ive sat in my classes during break hours countless times and overheard some wretched things from these little groups.
Ive veered off of my point though. My point in the whole women sticking with bums because of control issues thing was to prove a point. I know a lot of you are probably pretty attractive people, whether its physically or emotionally or both, but you struggle with dates and you wonder why. A lot of it, especially at younger ages has to do with the woman wanting control. If youre a nice looking guy and have your own free will and ideals, then believe it or not, a decent amount of women tend to shy away from that leaving you to blame yourself and wonder "why why why." It is a shame but i know a lot of attractive guys who cant pull women and they suffer in the self esteem department because of it, but in reality, theres nothing wrong with them, its the controlling women who wouldnt go near someone who has enough self-value to not be controlled, thats not in their best interest.
This is just one of the many things ive noticed, and ill post a lot more. Hope this was helpful, post some replies and tell me if its helped or if you disagree. Thanks!
