"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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The chat room is always up and most of the time it is hosted by one or more ops - just to keep the peace and provide a presence. I'm actually pretty glad that so many of you have "parked" yourselves there.

Most of the time you can get in and expect to speak to someone. The best times are those around 00:00 GMT - when all the Americans are not sleeping or working, I guess.

Here's the information you need

Server: polaris.starchat.net
Channel: #donjuan

You can do one of two things. The best thing to do is to download an IRC client (you can get one at www.mirc.co.uk) and type the following commands when you have started it up and configured basic settings:

/server polaris.starchat.net
(wait until you've connected)
/join #donjuan

The second thing you can do is to use the web interface. Just go to www.starchat.net and the rest should be simple. The /join command above should work for the web interface too.

Please note that while the chat room is always available, there will at times be proper "hosted events". The last event was Wednesday 3rd September 2003 and the channel was maxed out with 21 people at once at one point. The log is available here:

http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/djchat1.htm

There will be another hosted event soon. Keep an eye out for such information.

Nick
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm sticking this to inform people about the chat. I'll take it down in about 10 days, so you all better remember!! :D
 
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<----- still waiting for mod spot
 
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Hosted Don Juan chat this THURSDAY!

Hosted event Thursday 18th September
The second such event

Server polaris.starchat.net, channel #donjuan
Instructions for connecting to IRC servers is included in the thread that is currently a sticky here in Discussion Forum.

15:30 Pacific, or
18:30 Eastern, or
19:30 Atlantic, or
23:30 GMT (UK), or
01:30 Jerusalem (following day)

Check times on your cool windows clock and compare to GMT if you can't figure out the time from the list above.

Hosts: Nicholas Hill, and hopefully HotIce

I will encourage someone else to host a possible third event in the future.

Topics as follows:

Maintaining a consistent, high confidence level.
Kinesthetics - Touching the girls.
Our looks or our personality?
Q&A session at the end

Chat will take less than two hours.

Nick
 
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Nich, post this in the stickied post...I'm merging this atleast...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This chatroom is still up, just to let everyone know.
 
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Dee-Zy

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bump
 
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Aite

Thnx for the tip.

Anyone knows when the next chat will take place?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I want to try this chat thing. Does anyone still go there?
 
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