"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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influx of newbies

MacAvoy

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Is it just me seeing all these I'm new, what should I do threads or is there an influx of newbies to the board? If so, think it is a result of afc's reading "the game" and finding the site?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Logen

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you're very perceptive that's how i found this place.
 

Damian

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I'd say go read the DJ bible and get yourself fully acquainted to the runs of the game. Neil Strauss's book is great inspiration for the average guy, but it takes real action and commitment to become an mPUA. Go out and get some practical experience. It's the best thing that you can do for yourself.

-Damian
 
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