"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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influx of newbies

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MacAvoy

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Is it just me seeing all these I'm new, what should I do threads or is there an influx of newbies to the board? If so, think it is a result of afc's reading "the game" and finding the site?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you're very perceptive that's how i found this place.
 
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Damian

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I'd say go read the DJ bible and get yourself fully acquainted to the runs of the game. Neil Strauss's book is great inspiration for the average guy, but it takes real action and commitment to become an mPUA. Go out and get some practical experience. It's the best thing that you can do for yourself.

-Damian
 
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