Inexperienced girl. Am I wasting my time?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Master Don Juan

Jul 11, 2006

First, the girl isn't as innocent as you may think she is. She's used to sex and probably lots of it with a number of different guys. If you come across 'nice' to a girl who isn't all that innocent, this is what you will get. If you come across as a 'player' to a nice girl (provided she isn't gulliable or spoiled), you'll get busted in much the same manner.

You said she was quite social with alot of friends, this usually means that she is outgoing alright.

She wanted you to bone her on the beach and you came across like a chior boy.

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How do i flirt? Should i buy her a drink? How do i advance things physically?
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She says one thing but does another. How do i keep friends with benefits?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.