Inexperienced girl. Am I wasting my time?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Master Don Juan

Jul 11, 2006

First, the girl isn't as innocent as you may think she is. She's used to sex and probably lots of it with a number of different guys. If you come across 'nice' to a girl who isn't all that innocent, this is what you will get. If you come across as a 'player' to a nice girl (provided she isn't gulliable or spoiled), you'll get busted in much the same manner.

You said she was quite social with alot of friends, this usually means that she is outgoing alright.

She wanted you to bone her on the beach and you came across like a chior boy.

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How do i flirt? Should i buy her a drink? How do i advance things physically?
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Should i compliment her? How do i handle rejection? What about party girls?
Tell me about the friends zone. Should i tell her how i feel? What is good body language?
I'm in a slump. Should i be ****y and funny? What is the difference between neediness and clinglyness.
Should i be persistant? How do i be a mystery? Where do i meet girls?
She is long distance. Should i let her do most of the talking? Is she playing hard to get?
She says one thing but does another. How do i keep friends with benefits?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.