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****iness, Arrogance, Seriousness

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Jakeg123

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Last night I was told that although I don't mean to, at some points I can be ****y and even arrogant. Now of course I didnt realize this but considering it was a friend I took it to heart and am trying to work on changing it. How can you prevent this, or how can I change it. My close friends know I'm neither of those things and I am a joking person, not necessarily serious. He said I need to smile more and lighten up. I have a hard time having fun lately, and just being myself. I think in trying to grow to Alpha I have lost track. I'd really appreciate some solid answers.

Thanks-
jake
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Strelok

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Its hard to give you a proper suggestion given this few details, you can help explaining in a more detailed way.
 
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Jakeg123

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Sometimes I'm not comfortable in certain situations, even though I know that people love the real me. I'm a fun person but lately have a hard time being comfortable enough to show it. My confidence is down considering I broke up with a girl of over a year and haven't had time to go to the gym with courses and pledge for a fraternity. It was my pledge brothers that said I can be arrogant and ****y, they're looking out for me. Sometimes I get compliments about my looks, and I'd like to think I'm humble but maybe they subconciously go to my head. I don't think I'm ****y, and I think that my tendency for being shy or serious lately is making it seem arrogant/****y. I know that humbling myself is a start, but I'm more worried about being my fun self again honestly.
 
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