"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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escaleraroyal

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When u go out on a date. do girls want you to fclose them on the first date? Any indicators if they want to be fclose on the first date?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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IamJosan

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If you two make out and she's diggin it, then take her back to your place and get her all wet!
 

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She'll point to her vagina and say "fclose me"
 

OnTheWayUp

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In a word: compliance. As another poster has said, keep escalating, and she'll tell you through her actions how far she is prepared to go along with being seduced.

Other than that, chances of 1st date sex go up if:

-You go out for drinks rather than any other date idea, especially if she is a little tipsy and her inhibitions lowered.
-You get the first makeout during the date itself.
-You can get her jeans/ skirt off once you get her isolated. In my personal experience, this has always been a very strong indicator of the girl being up for some action.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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