Indian women

[SeymourCake]

Okay, so I'm Indian myself and basically I grew up hanging around with black people so whatever they were into; I was into. I grew up liking black and latina/hispanic women. Note, I've never had experience with Indian women seeing how I grew up in America, and I'm basically Americanized.

So I'm chillin' in the library browsing through this forum and I came across the aura thread
(http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155932)

After skimming through the whole thread, I get a glimpse of how to get the aura everyone was talking about. So I immediately close my laptop, place it in the bag and started to put it to use.

The first girl I see is sitting by herself, on the phone, and writing a letter. She had her head down as if she was tired and I approach her with an opening saying, "So you're tired, huh?" She responded "yeah, haha". "Long night last night?" I said....and so on....

She showed some IOI (example: playing with her hair, smiling, engage eye contact, even asked for my name and etc...)

She asked what church I went to, and I was completely honest and I said I don't go to church.

So after 5 minutes (note: the conversation is still going on) she was on the phone ready to leave (I guess she was supposed to meet up with someone) and I went for the number close. She replied, "I don't give numbers out". WTF? Seriously? So I smile and walk the opposite way. By the way, this girl was born and raised in America as well...But I can tell she was somewhat influenced by her household peers).

Did she not give me her number because I told her I didn't go to church? What do you guys think? Anyone here have experience with Indian women? Maybe she would have gave me her number if I was white. I've heard stories that Indian/Asian (orientals) women love white men.

I still feel kind of bad that I got rejected by my own people. Oh well...Her lost.

 

[Iceberg]

Eh. Yes, I do get the impression that asian cultures are more subdued, but I wouldn't bother analyzing this girl so much.

You did everything right. You approached, held a convo, and number closed. Just leave it at that. I wouldn't blame it on you not being white. The girl is either lame, shy, or just not into you. With your confidence to approach, you'll get plenty more shots.

 

[Aazman]

Right- i'm apt at asian culture.


Was she christian indian? Generally you have to realise, as i'm sure you probably know:

indian girls are protected.

And christian indian parents are mad about making sure they keep their religion.
Hence those that are religious- you will find them; However you will also find some that are more liberal. to be honest, the asian girls where i live:

are known as the Filthiest girls in the city. That is an UNDERSTATMENT! haha


Where abouts in india are you from?

 

[SeymourCake]

Right- i'm apt at asian culture.


Was she christian indian? Generally you have to realise, as i'm sure you probably know:

indian girls are protected.

And christian indian parents are mad about making sure they keep their religion.
Hence those that are religious- you will find them; However you will also find some that are more liberal. to be honest, the asian girls where i live:

are known as the Filthiest girls in the city. That is an UNDERSTATMENT! haha


Where abouts in india are you from?

Yeah she definitely Christian seeing how she told me she went to a St. Thomas Orthodox church. I'm from America, but if you're asking where my family is from...They're from Kerala.

 

[Kirro]

I'm a black guy from the Caribbean living in NYC. Both places have tons of indian chicks. I usually see indian chicks with guys of their own race(i.e you), black guys or even latinos, I have barely seen an indian/white couple.

My point is that as someone said, she is either lame, shy or not into you. Religion may play a part as well. However once you have your sh!t together & are decent looking & have decent skills no matter race you are, you'll attract all kinds of races.

You get props for the library approach OP. Keep it up you'll be set.

 

[Aazman]

I've heard that indian girls are pretty shallow. Been with one, and she was pretty much just that.

i'm from the uk, but what are indian girls like in the usa?

 

[Kirro]

Depends. If they are straight from india meaning the recently migrated they are more sheltered, religious & somewhat anti-social. If they're from the caribbean or born here in the US then they are pretty much your average western female.

Upbringing & life experiences make the female, not race.