"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Indian immigrant girls?

CoolRunning

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Just wondering if anyone has any advice specific to Indian girls (or Asian immigrant girls in general). She's not fresh off the boat, but she's probably only been here in the country for 4 yrs (she's 25 or so). From what I've seen, these girls aren't as used to being hit on and respond really well to AFC moves like bringing her a flower on the day3, telling her how much you enjoy spending time with her, etc. Less indirect game and more direct. What do you think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
You don't need game dude you need charisma. :cool:
But charisma is game if you are naturally shy or introvert because you have to act a way that you are not.
 

Someone Much cooler

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I find it works to just be nice to foreign chicks, a little smooth and romantic. dated 2 girls from asia and one from the middle east.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Suggestion before you get too into this girl, find out whether she is still influenced by her father and her native family customs. You could be on a fool's errand.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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