"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Indian immigrant girls?

CoolRunning

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Just wondering if anyone has any advice specific to Indian girls (or Asian immigrant girls in general). She's not fresh off the boat, but she's probably only been here in the country for 4 yrs (she's 25 or so). From what I've seen, these girls aren't as used to being hit on and respond really well to AFC moves like bringing her a flower on the day3, telling her how much you enjoy spending time with her, etc. Less indirect game and more direct. What do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
You don't need game dude you need charisma. :cool:
But charisma is game if you are naturally shy or introvert because you have to act a way that you are not.
 

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I find it works to just be nice to foreign chicks, a little smooth and romantic. dated 2 girls from asia and one from the middle east.
 

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Suggestion before you get too into this girl, find out whether she is still influenced by her father and her native family customs. You could be on a fool's errand.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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