"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thefonz

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Where's a good place to meet Americanized Indian girls. I don't see many. I see like 1 every year and a half or so. Since I found this site a few years ago I took advantage of getting the phone number of 1 chick who is indian that I met through another girl. I lost her number and I was pissed I never got the chance to hook up with an indian chick. I can't find many.

I'm not looking for girls straight from india because they tend to be too formal for my taste. Anyone know a way to go about this?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NYC? Boston seems a little whitebread to me. Not too diverse.
 

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indian girls are so pretty and f*cking goal-oriented. there was an Indian Heritage festival at the hotel I work for last week, and, man, I was in heaven. but, most of the license plates I saw, which pretty much confirmed my already established belief that Indians are all over New Jersey and the northeast in general, were mainly New Jersey.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tr0ublemaker said:
indian girls are so pretty
Yes, I suddenly find myself being attracted to them. Northern Indian in particular.
 

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I'm in the boston area. Ya, I'm coming to realize this demographic tends to roll in the high class trendy clubs. You don't see too many indian girls in average shady bars. I'll start making some serious money in the next year or so so Ill have to work up the nice clubs pretty soon
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bible_Belt

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If you can get invited to one Indian wedding, you can get to meet several hundred Indian women at once. The weddings are huge.

Are you of Indian descent yourself, fonz? If you are not, expect to get some resistance from more traditional girls, mostly because of the grief their family would give them for dating a non-Indian man.

The women have it easy, all they have to do is look for the nearest enginering and medical schools.
 

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I find that Indian girls in the UK are much more open and willing to date outside their culture.

And of course that sexy English accent always works on me..
 

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penkitten said:
which indian... dot or feather?
Very ignorant question.

Indians are people from India and not everyone has a dot on their forehead.

Those feather ones you speak of are called Native Americans.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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moto said:
Very ignorant question.

Indians are people from India and not everyone has a dot on their forehead.

Those feather ones you speak of are called Native Americans.
http://www.infoplease.com/spot/aihmterms.html
"I am an American Indian, Not a Native American!"
statement by Russell Means


The term, 'Native American,' came into usage in the 1960s to denote the groups served by the Bureau of Indian Affairs: American Indians and Alaska Native (Indians, Eskimos and Aleuts of Alaska). Later the term also included Native Hawaiians and Pacific Islanders in some Federal programs. It, therefore, came into disfavor among some Indian groups. The preferred term is American Indian.

Answers to Frequently Asked Questions, from the Bureau of Indian Affairs
 

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penkitten said:
http://www.infoplease.com/spot/aihmterms.html
"I am an American Indian, Not a Native American!"
statement by Russell Means


The term, 'Native American,' came into usage in the 1960s to denote the groups served by the Bureau of Indian Affairs: American Indians and Alaska Native (Indians, Eskimos and Aleuts of Alaska). Later the term also included Native Hawaiians and Pacific Islanders in some Federal programs. It, therefore, came into disfavor among some Indian groups. The preferred term is American Indian.

Answers to Frequently Asked Questions, from the Bureau of Indian Affairs
ok, but the feather and dot part was still ignorant.
 

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moto said:
ok, but the feather and dot part was still ignorant.
no sweetie, it was a joke.
i wasn't trying to offend anyone.
loosen up just a little:)
 

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penkitten said:
no sweetie, it was a joke.
i wasn't trying to offend anyone.
loosen up just a little:)
its cool :rock:
 

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PlasticSurgeon said:
Being a decent looking Indian guy...

Who works out on a consistent basis

Im going to make a bold statement that I can pretty much get any Indian girl I want...

Now my advice to non Indians who want to pick up Indian women. Have something in common.
I kinda agree with you, if you are a good looking Indian guy who works out, has a good body AND a career, you can pretty much get any Indian girl.

Most Indian guys are very focused on education and careers, they don't exercise and have little social interaction with the opposite sex, so they are not very good with women.

I had a white friend who was really into Indian women. And he did quite well with them. In fact, he got a couple of them to have sex for the first time. And these are women in their 20s. Some Indian girls will sleep with a white guy before an Indian guy. Simply because if they sleep with a white guy, nobody will ever know. If they sleep with an Indian guy, it might get around the community and "ruin their reputation". :confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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