"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thefonz

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Where's a good place to meet Americanized Indian girls. I don't see many. I see like 1 every year and a half or so. Since I found this site a few years ago I took advantage of getting the phone number of 1 chick who is indian that I met through another girl. I lost her number and I was pissed I never got the chance to hook up with an indian chick. I can't find many.

I'm not looking for girls straight from india because they tend to be too formal for my taste. Anyone know a way to go about this?

Plastic Surgeon<<??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NYC? Boston seems a little whitebread to me. Not too diverse.
 

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indian girls are so pretty and f*cking goal-oriented. there was an Indian Heritage festival at the hotel I work for last week, and, man, I was in heaven. but, most of the license plates I saw, which pretty much confirmed my already established belief that Indians are all over New Jersey and the northeast in general, were mainly New Jersey.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tr0ublemaker said:
indian girls are so pretty
Yes, I suddenly find myself being attracted to them. Northern Indian in particular.
 

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I'm in the boston area. Ya, I'm coming to realize this demographic tends to roll in the high class trendy clubs. You don't see too many indian girls in average shady bars. I'll start making some serious money in the next year or so so Ill have to work up the nice clubs pretty soon
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you can get invited to one Indian wedding, you can get to meet several hundred Indian women at once. The weddings are huge.

Are you of Indian descent yourself, fonz? If you are not, expect to get some resistance from more traditional girls, mostly because of the grief their family would give them for dating a non-Indian man.

The women have it easy, all they have to do is look for the nearest enginering and medical schools.
 

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I find that Indian girls in the UK are much more open and willing to date outside their culture.

And of course that sexy English accent always works on me..
 

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penkitten said:
which indian... dot or feather?
Very ignorant question.

Indians are people from India and not everyone has a dot on their forehead.

Those feather ones you speak of are called Native Americans.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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moto said:
Very ignorant question.

Indians are people from India and not everyone has a dot on their forehead.

Those feather ones you speak of are called Native Americans.
http://www.infoplease.com/spot/aihmterms.html
"I am an American Indian, Not a Native American!"
statement by Russell Means


The term, 'Native American,' came into usage in the 1960s to denote the groups served by the Bureau of Indian Affairs: American Indians and Alaska Native (Indians, Eskimos and Aleuts of Alaska). Later the term also included Native Hawaiians and Pacific Islanders in some Federal programs. It, therefore, came into disfavor among some Indian groups. The preferred term is American Indian.

Answers to Frequently Asked Questions, from the Bureau of Indian Affairs
 

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penkitten said:
http://www.infoplease.com/spot/aihmterms.html
"I am an American Indian, Not a Native American!"
statement by Russell Means


The term, 'Native American,' came into usage in the 1960s to denote the groups served by the Bureau of Indian Affairs: American Indians and Alaska Native (Indians, Eskimos and Aleuts of Alaska). Later the term also included Native Hawaiians and Pacific Islanders in some Federal programs. It, therefore, came into disfavor among some Indian groups. The preferred term is American Indian.

Answers to Frequently Asked Questions, from the Bureau of Indian Affairs
ok, but the feather and dot part was still ignorant.
 

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moto said:
ok, but the feather and dot part was still ignorant.
no sweetie, it was a joke.
i wasn't trying to offend anyone.
loosen up just a little:)
 

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penkitten said:
no sweetie, it was a joke.
i wasn't trying to offend anyone.
loosen up just a little:)
its cool :rock:
 

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PlasticSurgeon said:
Being a decent looking Indian guy...

Who works out on a consistent basis

Im going to make a bold statement that I can pretty much get any Indian girl I want...

Now my advice to non Indians who want to pick up Indian women. Have something in common.
I kinda agree with you, if you are a good looking Indian guy who works out, has a good body AND a career, you can pretty much get any Indian girl.

Most Indian guys are very focused on education and careers, they don't exercise and have little social interaction with the opposite sex, so they are not very good with women.

I had a white friend who was really into Indian women. And he did quite well with them. In fact, he got a couple of them to have sex for the first time. And these are women in their 20s. Some Indian girls will sleep with a white guy before an Indian guy. Simply because if they sleep with a white guy, nobody will ever know. If they sleep with an Indian guy, it might get around the community and "ruin their reputation". :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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