"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thefonz

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Where's a good place to meet Americanized Indian girls. I don't see many. I see like 1 every year and a half or so. Since I found this site a few years ago I took advantage of getting the phone number of 1 chick who is indian that I met through another girl. I lost her number and I was pissed I never got the chance to hook up with an indian chick. I can't find many.

I'm not looking for girls straight from india because they tend to be too formal for my taste. Anyone know a way to go about this?

Plastic Surgeon<<??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NYC? Boston seems a little whitebread to me. Not too diverse.
 

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indian girls are so pretty and f*cking goal-oriented. there was an Indian Heritage festival at the hotel I work for last week, and, man, I was in heaven. but, most of the license plates I saw, which pretty much confirmed my already established belief that Indians are all over New Jersey and the northeast in general, were mainly New Jersey.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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tr0ublemaker said:
indian girls are so pretty
Yes, I suddenly find myself being attracted to them. Northern Indian in particular.
 

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I'm in the boston area. Ya, I'm coming to realize this demographic tends to roll in the high class trendy clubs. You don't see too many indian girls in average shady bars. I'll start making some serious money in the next year or so so Ill have to work up the nice clubs pretty soon
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you can get invited to one Indian wedding, you can get to meet several hundred Indian women at once. The weddings are huge.

Are you of Indian descent yourself, fonz? If you are not, expect to get some resistance from more traditional girls, mostly because of the grief their family would give them for dating a non-Indian man.

The women have it easy, all they have to do is look for the nearest enginering and medical schools.
 

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I find that Indian girls in the UK are much more open and willing to date outside their culture.

And of course that sexy English accent always works on me..
 

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which indian... dot or feather?
Very ignorant question.

Indians are people from India and not everyone has a dot on their forehead.

Those feather ones you speak of are called Native Americans.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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moto said:
Very ignorant question.

Indians are people from India and not everyone has a dot on their forehead.

Those feather ones you speak of are called Native Americans.
http://www.infoplease.com/spot/aihmterms.html
"I am an American Indian, Not a Native American!"
statement by Russell Means


The term, 'Native American,' came into usage in the 1960s to denote the groups served by the Bureau of Indian Affairs: American Indians and Alaska Native (Indians, Eskimos and Aleuts of Alaska). Later the term also included Native Hawaiians and Pacific Islanders in some Federal programs. It, therefore, came into disfavor among some Indian groups. The preferred term is American Indian.

Answers to Frequently Asked Questions, from the Bureau of Indian Affairs
 

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penkitten said:
http://www.infoplease.com/spot/aihmterms.html
"I am an American Indian, Not a Native American!"
statement by Russell Means


The term, 'Native American,' came into usage in the 1960s to denote the groups served by the Bureau of Indian Affairs: American Indians and Alaska Native (Indians, Eskimos and Aleuts of Alaska). Later the term also included Native Hawaiians and Pacific Islanders in some Federal programs. It, therefore, came into disfavor among some Indian groups. The preferred term is American Indian.

Answers to Frequently Asked Questions, from the Bureau of Indian Affairs
ok, but the feather and dot part was still ignorant.
 

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moto said:
ok, but the feather and dot part was still ignorant.
no sweetie, it was a joke.
i wasn't trying to offend anyone.
loosen up just a little:)
 

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no sweetie, it was a joke.
i wasn't trying to offend anyone.
loosen up just a little:)
its cool :rock:
 

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PlasticSurgeon said:
Being a decent looking Indian guy...

Who works out on a consistent basis

Im going to make a bold statement that I can pretty much get any Indian girl I want...

Now my advice to non Indians who want to pick up Indian women. Have something in common.
I kinda agree with you, if you are a good looking Indian guy who works out, has a good body AND a career, you can pretty much get any Indian girl.

Most Indian guys are very focused on education and careers, they don't exercise and have little social interaction with the opposite sex, so they are not very good with women.

I had a white friend who was really into Indian women. And he did quite well with them. In fact, he got a couple of them to have sex for the first time. And these are women in their 20s. Some Indian girls will sleep with a white guy before an Indian guy. Simply because if they sleep with a white guy, nobody will ever know. If they sleep with an Indian guy, it might get around the community and "ruin their reputation". :confused:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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