"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Indian girls, and how bad did I f**ked up? Thoughts?

dudewut

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-be at a bar last night
-spoke to a girl
-bought her a shot (before you guys hang me for a traitor...erm i can explain)
-danced with her
-told her I think you are kinda cute, and I would like to get in touch sometime (this is loaded, coz I have a clever riposte when she say x or w/e but to my surprise she said yes)
-told me to get her number, I took it
-told her I need to go back to friends coz we are bouncing soon
-came back to her before i walk out the door
-before I leave tried to makeout
-she said no, she does not do that
-I laughed and asked "not drunk enough?"
-she was like "haha nooo"
-I was like "hahaha next time then" then walk away

1. This USUALLY works for me, the****? Ouch mah ego! We will end up making out right then and there!
2. How bad did I **** up?
3. Should I call/text the number later? (has a game plan of using the drunk card)
4. Is gaming Indian girls different from gaming white girls? Must I use a different approach (kinda like how Russian girls are not receptive to direct game)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The_Crack

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i didn't see a f*k up here at all? you went in for a kiss and she didn't want it. Big deal. Leave your ego at the door and you'll do alot better..
Just hit her up through text and see where she's at. be playful.

and yeah indian girls are usually more conservative if they were born in India and moved overseas. the culture is that way.
 

dudewut

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The_Crack said:
i didn't see a f*k up here at all? you went in for a kiss and she didn't want it. Big deal. Leave your ego at the door and you'll do alot better..
Just hit her up through text and see where she's at. be playful.

and yeah indian girls are usually more conservative if they were born in India and moved overseas. the culture is that way.

idk I feel embarassed and no she was born here so now I feel worse lol
 

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Actually Indian girls raised in the west are waaaayyyyyyy more conservative that their Indian counterparts for the most part (who are very conservative)

I travel to India frequently and have seen this firsthand.

Indian parents who came to the west in the 70s-90s are stuck in a mental timewarp...they create hyper strict environments to raise their kids..I know Indian girls raised in New York who didn't even kiss dudes until they were 23 and well out of college....these are super frigid very repressed girls who will most likely never know happiness...they have a bubbly exterior and can be super cute, but they have been brainwashed by their parents into fearing anything sexual whatsoever....very sad.
 

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Why don't I ever hear anyone talking about our Native American Indian girls here? They're not frustrated or frigid, they're crazy hott! I'd never turn one down. :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dudewut

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Beowolf said:
Why don't I ever hear anyone talking about our Native American Indian girls here? They're not frustrated or frigid, they're crazy hott! I'd never turn one down. :up:
I never met one lol And I heard "things" that I would rather not discuss here.

Anyways looking back its a good thing i didnt apologize for getting turned down for a kiss.
 

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That's funny, the biggest slut I know is an Indian girl.
 

dudewut

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SSBS said:
That's funny, the biggest slut I know is an Indian girl.
LMAO me too. But then the biggest tease I know is also an Indian girl. It seems its one or the other.
 

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alpha_ash said:
Don't waste your time with Indian girls. Most won't put out if any at all even after you are with her months.
And not a doctor. The ones living in America are usually rich and come from very snobby parents.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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