"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Indian girls, and how bad did I f**ked up? Thoughts?

dudewut

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-be at a bar last night
-spoke to a girl
-bought her a shot (before you guys hang me for a traitor...erm i can explain)
-danced with her
-told her I think you are kinda cute, and I would like to get in touch sometime (this is loaded, coz I have a clever riposte when she say x or w/e but to my surprise she said yes)
-told me to get her number, I took it
-told her I need to go back to friends coz we are bouncing soon
-came back to her before i walk out the door
-before I leave tried to makeout
-she said no, she does not do that
-I laughed and asked "not drunk enough?"
-she was like "haha nooo"
-I was like "hahaha next time then" then walk away

1. This USUALLY works for me, the****? Ouch mah ego! We will end up making out right then and there!
2. How bad did I **** up?
3. Should I call/text the number later? (has a game plan of using the drunk card)
4. Is gaming Indian girls different from gaming white girls? Must I use a different approach (kinda like how Russian girls are not receptive to direct game)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The_Crack

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i didn't see a f*k up here at all? you went in for a kiss and she didn't want it. Big deal. Leave your ego at the door and you'll do alot better..
Just hit her up through text and see where she's at. be playful.

and yeah indian girls are usually more conservative if they were born in India and moved overseas. the culture is that way.
 

dudewut

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The_Crack said:
i didn't see a f*k up here at all? you went in for a kiss and she didn't want it. Big deal. Leave your ego at the door and you'll do alot better..
Just hit her up through text and see where she's at. be playful.

and yeah indian girls are usually more conservative if they were born in India and moved overseas. the culture is that way.

idk I feel embarassed and no she was born here so now I feel worse lol
 

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Actually Indian girls raised in the west are waaaayyyyyyy more conservative that their Indian counterparts for the most part (who are very conservative)

I travel to India frequently and have seen this firsthand.

Indian parents who came to the west in the 70s-90s are stuck in a mental timewarp...they create hyper strict environments to raise their kids..I know Indian girls raised in New York who didn't even kiss dudes until they were 23 and well out of college....these are super frigid very repressed girls who will most likely never know happiness...they have a bubbly exterior and can be super cute, but they have been brainwashed by their parents into fearing anything sexual whatsoever....very sad.
 

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Why don't I ever hear anyone talking about our Native American Indian girls here? They're not frustrated or frigid, they're crazy hott! I'd never turn one down. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dudewut

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Beowolf said:
Why don't I ever hear anyone talking about our Native American Indian girls here? They're not frustrated or frigid, they're crazy hott! I'd never turn one down. :up:
I never met one lol And I heard "things" that I would rather not discuss here.

Anyways looking back its a good thing i didnt apologize for getting turned down for a kiss.
 

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That's funny, the biggest slut I know is an Indian girl.
 

dudewut

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SSBS said:
That's funny, the biggest slut I know is an Indian girl.
LMAO me too. But then the biggest tease I know is also an Indian girl. It seems its one or the other.
 

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alpha_ash said:
Don't waste your time with Indian girls. Most won't put out if any at all even after you are with her months.
And not a doctor. The ones living in America are usually rich and come from very snobby parents.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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