"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Indecent Proposal

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Have any of you seen the 1993 movie "Indecent Proposal?" The movie stars Robert Redford, Woody Harrelson, and Demi Moore. It is one of those movies that makes you sit and THINK......

Woody and Demi are married and don't have much money. They come into $5K and decide to try their luck at the craps in Las Vegas. Demi attacts the attention of billionaire Robert Redford, and then they lose all their money. Redford asks Woody if he would let him have ONE NIGHT with his wife for One Million Dollars. Demi and Woody both are insulted, but Reford poses the argument: "One night will come and go, but the million dollars will last a lifetime." They think it over that night, and decide to go for it.....

Me and my girl were watching this, and when Demi goes off with Redford, she actually got MAD at Woody for "letting his wife go off with that man for the money." She actually believes this crock, that the man was guilty, and Demi was the victim who HAD to go and get this million dollars. So I shot back with, "well, he can't MAKE her do something she doesn't want to do." I said that just as the scene went to Demi in the ladies room checking her makeip and looking like a million dollars herself. That started it. She got mad a t me for the rest of the day. I just blew it off, which made her madder.

If there is ANY way a woman can shift the blame and put it on the guy, she WILL. I think that all women either hate men at some level, or they resent the he!! out of us.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by K B
If there is ANY way a woman can shift the blame and put it on the guy, she WILL. I think that all women either hate men at some level, or they resent the he!! out of us.
That's a rather pessimistic view... Remember, women aren't the enemy...
 

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Diablo, you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT, women are NOT the enemy.

I don't feel that way, but when women MAKE us their enemy, what else can you feel?
 

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lol leave it to a b1tch to get mad about a movie hahaha.
 
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