"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Indecent Proposal

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Have any of you seen the 1993 movie "Indecent Proposal?" The movie stars Robert Redford, Woody Harrelson, and Demi Moore. It is one of those movies that makes you sit and THINK......

Woody and Demi are married and don't have much money. They come into $5K and decide to try their luck at the craps in Las Vegas. Demi attacts the attention of billionaire Robert Redford, and then they lose all their money. Redford asks Woody if he would let him have ONE NIGHT with his wife for One Million Dollars. Demi and Woody both are insulted, but Reford poses the argument: "One night will come and go, but the million dollars will last a lifetime." They think it over that night, and decide to go for it.....

Me and my girl were watching this, and when Demi goes off with Redford, she actually got MAD at Woody for "letting his wife go off with that man for the money." She actually believes this crock, that the man was guilty, and Demi was the victim who HAD to go and get this million dollars. So I shot back with, "well, he can't MAKE her do something she doesn't want to do." I said that just as the scene went to Demi in the ladies room checking her makeip and looking like a million dollars herself. That started it. She got mad a t me for the rest of the day. I just blew it off, which made her madder.

If there is ANY way a woman can shift the blame and put it on the guy, she WILL. I think that all women either hate men at some level, or they resent the he!! out of us.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Don Juan Discussion: Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice."

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Originally posted by K B
If there is ANY way a woman can shift the blame and put it on the guy, she WILL. I think that all women either hate men at some level, or they resent the he!! out of us.
That's a rather pessimistic view... Remember, women aren't the enemy...
 

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Diablo, you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT, women are NOT the enemy.

I don't feel that way, but when women MAKE us their enemy, what else can you feel?
 

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lol leave it to a b1tch to get mad about a movie hahaha.
 
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