"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Incremental Improvement

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Don Juan
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So I've joined a local gym and have a vague workout plan. I want to focus on my back and abs quite a bit as my legs have plenty of muscle. Overall goal is to lower bodyfat % from the current 20% to about 14%-12%.

Height 5'8"
Weight ~170
BF% - 20%

I want to reach my goal of 14% by January. Currently I have trouble eating regularly and well (I know how, my job just prevents me from inconvenient food. Plus, I can't prepare anything, certinly nothing that requires refrigeration.). Clif bars and the cousins Builder bars are my main sources of sustinance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Omen

Master Don Juan
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So what is your QUESTION? You seem to state what you are after, but not what you really need help with. Is it your training, AND your eating, just your eating, or what?

Are you asking HOW to eat better and what you can do?

You can check the Vault and though you aren't in high school or college (or maybe you are) read my post about that topic. It gives many options for HOW to eat in tougher situations.

Your diet will KILL YOU if you cant get it right. Living off clif bars and only bars and shakes wont cut it.
 
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