"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Incremental Improvement

Incremental

Don Juan
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So I've joined a local gym and have a vague workout plan. I want to focus on my back and abs quite a bit as my legs have plenty of muscle. Overall goal is to lower bodyfat % from the current 20% to about 14%-12%.

Height 5'8"
Weight ~170
BF% - 20%

I want to reach my goal of 14% by January. Currently I have trouble eating regularly and well (I know how, my job just prevents me from inconvenient food. Plus, I can't prepare anything, certinly nothing that requires refrigeration.). Clif bars and the cousins Builder bars are my main sources of sustinance.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Omen

Master Don Juan
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So what is your QUESTION? You seem to state what you are after, but not what you really need help with. Is it your training, AND your eating, just your eating, or what?

Are you asking HOW to eat better and what you can do?

You can check the Vault and though you aren't in high school or college (or maybe you are) read my post about that topic. It gives many options for HOW to eat in tougher situations.

Your diet will KILL YOU if you cant get it right. Living off clif bars and only bars and shakes wont cut it.
 
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