Incredibly Easy Cold Approach Technique

[GodsGiftToFatBirds]

This has gotta be the easiest possible way of meeting a woman walking in the street:

Stop her and ask for directions to somewhere but deliberately ask for a place in the direction she's already walking, preferably a few minutes away.

There's a decent chance she'll be like 'yeh i'm going that way anyway, i'll show you', even if she doesn't and just starts giving directions on the spot, you can always ask if she's heading that way anyway so long as she seems fairly friendly and receptive. Then you've got 5-10 minutes to chat, which should be all you need if you're any sort of DJ.


This is so simple that i can't believe i've never seen it mentioned in any thread on openers or cold approaching or that i've only just thought of it myself, I'm definately gonna field test it though.


:rockon: :rockon:

 

[[o_0]]

yeah its cool. i somtimes use another technique. i ask from something so obvious, that she already knows im not meaning finding place. like i ask for something that is just towars us, and act like i didnt know, but im laughing. pz

 

[Sapiens]

Wow, this is brilliant!!!! Thanks!!!

 

[[o_0]]

Originally posted by Sapiens
Wow, this is brilliant!!!! Thanks!!!

np mate. look for more posts from me

 

[muttley]

Originally posted by GodsGiftToFatBirds
This has gotta be the easiest possible way of meeting a woman walking in the street:

Stop her and ask for directions to somewhere but deliberately ask for a place in the direction she's already walking, preferably a few minutes away.

There's a decent chance she'll be like 'yeh i'm going that way anyway, i'll show you', even if she doesn't and just starts giving directions on the spot, you can always ask if she's heading that way anyway so long as she seems fairly friendly and receptive. Then you've got 5-10 minutes to chat, which should be all you need if you're any sort of DJ.


This is so simple that i can't believe i've never seen it mentioned in any thread on openers or cold approaching or that i've only just thought of it myself, I'm definately gonna field test it though.


:rockon: :rockon:

why oh why didnt i think of this LOL..this a a great tactic , i will field test this.:box: :box: :box:

 

[h2o]

yeah, this is cool. even better, is if you are actually new to a place/area, but have been able to find a few places before hand, then you can still ask how to get there, because it is not a complete lie.

for example, a few weeks ago, for fall break, i made a trip to another school (where i'll be transferring soon most probably), and i had to go see some advisors and stuff about my credits. in the office, the girls who worked with the advisor were pretty cute (and so was the advisor, she was hot, and we flirted quite a bit). anyway, the advisor suggested that one of the girls show me to a certain part of the campus (and i said sure, even though i already knew where it was)...and i took advantage of that opportunity to just chat up the cute girl and get to know her as we walked.

the only problem i saw with this is, that if you do already know where the place is, etc, you have to sort of act a bit to be like, "whoa, this place is pretty cool." even though you've already been there once.

not sure if you get my drift, but i have field tested this a few times, and usually just did so out of whim.

anyway, try it, but imo, i'd say it would be better if you could get the girl to walk with you to where you're headed rather than try to go where she may be headed. because in the former situations, it makes me feel uncomfortable somewhat to feel like i have an "agenda." but that's just me.

good luck with this though, because it is a good way to get numbers from street approaches!

 

[Chillisauce]

I'd like to add abit to this as its been my sneaky way of cold approaching for some time.

make the place your going something the girl could do as well and if the convos going well go for the insta-date.

Two examples: Asked for directions to starbucks (stupid fvcking idea!, twirl around 10 times and stop in any direction there will be a starbucks). We arrived there and i said 'come have a coffe' Ended up dating her for a few weeks.

example 2: this is my favorite, on university campus i find someone heading in the right direction in ask where the guild bar is. Only problem with my campus is its too logical, i get more directions than guides.

Its good to put a time-restraint on it too.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Good work boys! I just posted a cold approach very similar. The key is to start up a bullsh*t convo so when you go for her number it won't look awkward. Asking for directions works great too.

 

[Sophomakhos]

Originally posted by [o_0]
np mate. look for more posts from me

You don't think perhaps that he was referring to the first post?

At any rate, the direction asking is rather a good cold approach technique.