catlovesfood
Don Juan
Does anyone how to increase you back size dramatically?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
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Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Increasing you back
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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
Deadlifts, T-Bars, Pull-ups.
I'm not sure if you mean back thickness or what. But you're probably going to want to blast your lats with lat pulldowns/pull ups.
I'm not sure if you mean back thickness or what. But you're probably going to want to blast your lats with lat pulldowns/pull ups.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
semag, you love your 5X5's dont you
Lol.... I guess I've been touting that a bit too much lately huh.
It's just, you get psyched up when you start making gains again... I'm talkin like 5- 10 lbs a week for several weeks in a row. You're just stoked on it, brah.
It's just, you get psyched up when you start making gains again... I'm talkin like 5- 10 lbs a week for several weeks in a row. You're just stoked on it, brah.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
I know what you mean, I've been adding on average of 7lbs on to to almost everything recently by brushing up my diet, going truely intense and training balls to the wall. Although I think I might need that rest week a bit sooner than it was scheduled
It depends on what you're looking to do. For overall back size just keep doing lots of heavy deadlifting.
for upperback thickness and fullness, do lots of rowing. rowing for the back is like benching for the chest, it builds the muscle with lots of thickness.
to widen the lats do wide grip pull ups, these stretch the lats and make them get wide.
hope this helps
for upperback thickness and fullness, do lots of rowing. rowing for the back is like benching for the chest, it builds the muscle with lots of thickness.
to widen the lats do wide grip pull ups, these stretch the lats and make them get wide.
hope this helps
DJBen
Master Don Juan
That builds the lower back and middle back, but dont forget solid rear delts and solid traps. Just an after-thought.
Shrugs+bent over laterals to help with this.
Shrugs+bent over laterals to help with this.
MrFitness880
Senior Don Juan
BENT OVER BARBELL ROWS!
also make sure you do Deadlifts/Rackpulls
other good exercises:
pull-ups/weighted pull-ups
t-bar rows
shrugs
good-mornings
also make sure you do Deadlifts/Rackpulls
other good exercises:
pull-ups/weighted pull-ups
t-bar rows
shrugs
good-mornings
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
I'm going to have to call bullsh!t on both of you. I don't see how it's possible to gain that much weight in a week. I would like to see your diets.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
Call bull**** all you like, but 7lbs to my main lifts is easily possible, numbnuts.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
I thought you were talking about bodyweight, numbnuts.