"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dj_china

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sometimes I just feel really unexcited in a club or social atmosphere, like I don't want to talk to anybody
I'm not tired -- if I am, I will just fall asleep

but I just don't feel like talking to anybody else, and just want to leave and go
home. Does this happen to anybody else? and what do you do to fight this?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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i've had that feeling before. i think it's because you're not satisfied with yourself and where you are currently. I didn't mind going to the club but when i got there i was just not in the mood for anything except just chilling and drinking. When people came by i just said hi and turned back around. When i started being more proactive and doing things i wanted to do that feeling went away.

on the post below. I think u just made the connection there.

By doing what i did, i was working toward a life that would make me happy. Therefore in the end, doing what i did was making me happy and helping me get out of that slump.
 
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I get that feeling all the time..i need to learn to block out all that negativity.
 
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Yeah I get that feeling all the time also.Like I see a sexy girl and I just look and never say anything,just dont feel like it.I guess you gotta fight the feeling and just start talking to people.
 
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AAAgent said:
i've had that feeling before. i think it's because you're not satisfied with yourself and where you are currently. I didn't mind going to the club but when i got there i was just not in the mood for anything except just chilling and drinking. When people came by i just said hi and turned back around. When i started being more proactive and doing things i wanted to do that feeling went away.

on the post below. I think u just made the connection there.

By doing what i did, i was working toward a life that would make me happy. Therefore in the end, doing what i did was making me happy and helping me get out of that slump.
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right -- even when people approach you, you don't really feel like holding a conversation. let alone being an interesting person and trying to build rapport, etc.

so you're saying just by forcing yourself to do this, you will actually come out of the slump naturally?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrRuckus

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You're somewhat of an introvert. No big deal. People really aren't that interesting or exciting.
 
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