"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dj_china

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sometimes I just feel really unexcited in a club or social atmosphere, like I don't want to talk to anybody
I'm not tired -- if I am, I will just fall asleep

but I just don't feel like talking to anybody else, and just want to leave and go
home. Does this happen to anybody else? and what do you do to fight this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i've had that feeling before. i think it's because you're not satisfied with yourself and where you are currently. I didn't mind going to the club but when i got there i was just not in the mood for anything except just chilling and drinking. When people came by i just said hi and turned back around. When i started being more proactive and doing things i wanted to do that feeling went away.

on the post below. I think u just made the connection there.

By doing what i did, i was working toward a life that would make me happy. Therefore in the end, doing what i did was making me happy and helping me get out of that slump.
 
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I get that feeling all the time..i need to learn to block out all that negativity.
 
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tebow1120

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Yeah I get that feeling all the time also.Like I see a sexy girl and I just look and never say anything,just dont feel like it.I guess you gotta fight the feeling and just start talking to people.
 
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AAAgent said:
i've had that feeling before. i think it's because you're not satisfied with yourself and where you are currently. I didn't mind going to the club but when i got there i was just not in the mood for anything except just chilling and drinking. When people came by i just said hi and turned back around. When i started being more proactive and doing things i wanted to do that feeling went away.

on the post below. I think u just made the connection there.

By doing what i did, i was working toward a life that would make me happy. Therefore in the end, doing what i did was making me happy and helping me get out of that slump.
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right -- even when people approach you, you don't really feel like holding a conversation. let alone being an interesting person and trying to build rapport, etc.

so you're saying just by forcing yourself to do this, you will actually come out of the slump naturally?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mrRuckus

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You're somewhat of an introvert. No big deal. People really aren't that interesting or exciting.
 
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