"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dj_china

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sometimes I just feel really unexcited in a club or social atmosphere, like I don't want to talk to anybody
I'm not tired -- if I am, I will just fall asleep

but I just don't feel like talking to anybody else, and just want to leave and go
home. Does this happen to anybody else? and what do you do to fight this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i've had that feeling before. i think it's because you're not satisfied with yourself and where you are currently. I didn't mind going to the club but when i got there i was just not in the mood for anything except just chilling and drinking. When people came by i just said hi and turned back around. When i started being more proactive and doing things i wanted to do that feeling went away.

on the post below. I think u just made the connection there.

By doing what i did, i was working toward a life that would make me happy. Therefore in the end, doing what i did was making me happy and helping me get out of that slump.
 
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I get that feeling all the time..i need to learn to block out all that negativity.
 
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Yeah I get that feeling all the time also.Like I see a sexy girl and I just look and never say anything,just dont feel like it.I guess you gotta fight the feeling and just start talking to people.
 
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AAAgent said:
i've had that feeling before. i think it's because you're not satisfied with yourself and where you are currently. I didn't mind going to the club but when i got there i was just not in the mood for anything except just chilling and drinking. When people came by i just said hi and turned back around. When i started being more proactive and doing things i wanted to do that feeling went away.

on the post below. I think u just made the connection there.

By doing what i did, i was working toward a life that would make me happy. Therefore in the end, doing what i did was making me happy and helping me get out of that slump.
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right -- even when people approach you, you don't really feel like holding a conversation. let alone being an interesting person and trying to build rapport, etc.

so you're saying just by forcing yourself to do this, you will actually come out of the slump naturally?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're somewhat of an introvert. No big deal. People really aren't that interesting or exciting.
 
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