"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is an idea that I have been toying with for some time. The experiments I have done up until now hove been very successful.

Before I explain this I want you to ask yourself what your goals are in terms of success with women.
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Do you have a daily approach goal? This could be as little as 1 and as high as you want to take it.

Are you keeping track of how many women you approach in a day/month/year?

Do you know what percentage of the women you approach leads to rejection/# close/full close.

I have found that by setting goals and tracking your progress, you have a very clear picture of where you stand. You can see your strengths and weaknesses, and get a jump on where you can improve.

What I do is help you to set your goals based on your current standing, and email you every morning, a visual progress report. I will not explain that fully now.

What you do is email me the numbers. How many women you approached, how many #'s you got, how many rejections, how many f-closes.

To further my experiment, I am looking for a handful of committed individuals who are determined to improve. I am offering this free of charge as long as we continue the experiment. We will see how you are doing today, compared to how you will be doing over the next months.

I will also include free of charge my book, Pro-Active, No-Pressure Pick-Up.

When these two powerful tools are used together, you can expect an increase of your success with women by 20% 30% and higher. The numbers don't lie if you don't.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds good, I recorded all my approaches this week on my planner.
 

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Evolution said:
Sounds good, I recorded all my approaches this week on my planner.
That's great. Did you begin with a set goal, and did you see any progress through the week?
 

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Yes. I've definitely seeing a lot more approaches from a day to day basis.

I guess my goal was just to get the approach down. Try to eliminate AA as much as possible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Evolution said:
Yes. I've definitely seeing a lot more approaches from a day to day basis.

I guess my goal was just to get the approach down. Try to eliminate AA as much as possible.
Are you tracking the results of those approaches?
 

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i just have to tell you that "the morning wood report" was a really great title for this thread. my favorite so far this year.
 

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penkitten said:
i just have to tell you that "the morning wood report" was a really great title for this thread. my favorite so far this year.
Aloha Penkitten - This is going to be a really exciting project. If it works for building people's social skills as well as it works for the companies that use our regular Morning Report, we are going to see some very happy guys around here.

p.s. what do you think about the "apocalypse approach?"
 
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