"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is an idea that I have been toying with for some time. The experiments I have done up until now hove been very successful.

Before I explain this I want you to ask yourself what your goals are in terms of success with women.
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Do you have a daily approach goal? This could be as little as 1 and as high as you want to take it.

Are you keeping track of how many women you approach in a day/month/year?

Do you know what percentage of the women you approach leads to rejection/# close/full close.

I have found that by setting goals and tracking your progress, you have a very clear picture of where you stand. You can see your strengths and weaknesses, and get a jump on where you can improve.

What I do is help you to set your goals based on your current standing, and email you every morning, a visual progress report. I will not explain that fully now.

What you do is email me the numbers. How many women you approached, how many #'s you got, how many rejections, how many f-closes.

To further my experiment, I am looking for a handful of committed individuals who are determined to improve. I am offering this free of charge as long as we continue the experiment. We will see how you are doing today, compared to how you will be doing over the next months.

I will also include free of charge my book, Pro-Active, No-Pressure Pick-Up.

When these two powerful tools are used together, you can expect an increase of your success with women by 20% 30% and higher. The numbers don't lie if you don't.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sounds good, I recorded all my approaches this week on my planner.
 

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Evolution said:
Sounds good, I recorded all my approaches this week on my planner.
That's great. Did you begin with a set goal, and did you see any progress through the week?
 

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Yes. I've definitely seeing a lot more approaches from a day to day basis.

I guess my goal was just to get the approach down. Try to eliminate AA as much as possible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Evolution said:
Yes. I've definitely seeing a lot more approaches from a day to day basis.

I guess my goal was just to get the approach down. Try to eliminate AA as much as possible.
Are you tracking the results of those approaches?
 

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i just have to tell you that "the morning wood report" was a really great title for this thread. my favorite so far this year.
 

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penkitten said:
i just have to tell you that "the morning wood report" was a really great title for this thread. my favorite so far this year.
Aloha Penkitten - This is going to be a really exciting project. If it works for building people's social skills as well as it works for the companies that use our regular Morning Report, we are going to see some very happy guys around here.

p.s. what do you think about the "apocalypse approach?"
 
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