"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is an idea that I have been toying with for some time. The experiments I have done up until now hove been very successful.

Before I explain this I want you to ask yourself what your goals are in terms of success with women.
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Do you have a daily approach goal? This could be as little as 1 and as high as you want to take it.

Are you keeping track of how many women you approach in a day/month/year?

Do you know what percentage of the women you approach leads to rejection/# close/full close.

I have found that by setting goals and tracking your progress, you have a very clear picture of where you stand. You can see your strengths and weaknesses, and get a jump on where you can improve.

What I do is help you to set your goals based on your current standing, and email you every morning, a visual progress report. I will not explain that fully now.

What you do is email me the numbers. How many women you approached, how many #'s you got, how many rejections, how many f-closes.

To further my experiment, I am looking for a handful of committed individuals who are determined to improve. I am offering this free of charge as long as we continue the experiment. We will see how you are doing today, compared to how you will be doing over the next months.

I will also include free of charge my book, Pro-Active, No-Pressure Pick-Up.

When these two powerful tools are used together, you can expect an increase of your success with women by 20% 30% and higher. The numbers don't lie if you don't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds good, I recorded all my approaches this week on my planner.
 

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Evolution said:
Sounds good, I recorded all my approaches this week on my planner.
That's great. Did you begin with a set goal, and did you see any progress through the week?
 

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Yes. I've definitely seeing a lot more approaches from a day to day basis.

I guess my goal was just to get the approach down. Try to eliminate AA as much as possible.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Evolution said:
Yes. I've definitely seeing a lot more approaches from a day to day basis.

I guess my goal was just to get the approach down. Try to eliminate AA as much as possible.
Are you tracking the results of those approaches?
 

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i just have to tell you that "the morning wood report" was a really great title for this thread. my favorite so far this year.
 

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penkitten said:
i just have to tell you that "the morning wood report" was a really great title for this thread. my favorite so far this year.
Aloha Penkitten - This is going to be a really exciting project. If it works for building people's social skills as well as it works for the companies that use our regular Morning Report, we are going to see some very happy guys around here.

p.s. what do you think about the "apocalypse approach?"
 
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