Inconsistent behaviour

[The Monolith]

A girl I'm really interested in is acting strange. When we first met she gave me every possible sign of interest, without exception, especially when she was drunk ie. screaming with excitement when she saw me. Then after about 2 months of occasionally seeing each other, her behaviour changes dramatically. No longer does she talk to me, when I'm around she looks at the floor and fidgets with her clothes and hair etc., the other day we were at a party, she went bright red and I caught her looking at me then looking away. What does this mean?? does she likes me more or is she trying to put me off? If she's just shy, wouldn't it have been this way from the beginning?

Before you flame me for hesitating, know that there is far more at stake here than just rejection.

 

[asdfghjkl]

Hmm, she's a shy girl but it's pretty obvious she likes you. In fact, once i had an exact same situation about a year ago.

I would bet money that your a pretty shy guy, just like how i used to be. And before, she used to open you up all the time and flirt/try to get you to notice her. But now that she's kinda made her intentions known, she's backing off and now its your turn to open her up/make a move/get a date.

Don't make it seem so dramatic, im sure that it's not like life or death if she rejects you...

 

[musclyjerk]

Make your move and see - the signs look good.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[Desdinova]

I take it you're a fellow Bolan fan

Then after about 2 months of occasionally seeing each other, her behaviour changes dramatically.

If you've been trying to go out with her for two months, but never actually making a move, you took too long. You should have struck when her IL was high two months ago. Now, she has lost interest in you and has possibly moved onto other options.

ALWAYS assume attraction unless proven otherwise. Next time you meet a woman and she's showing even A LITTLE BIT of interest in you, get her number and set up a date. If you do this, your success rate will go up.