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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Incline vs. flat bench on Rippetoe's?

Flabbergasped?

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Sup all,

I'm still following Rippetoe's starting strength guide. I had to stop lifting for break and my show week, but I'm diving back into it. My bench max was 165 when I stopped, but I've restarted at 135. I figure I'll add 5-10 a week and catch up fast.

This is all on flat bench. Are there any advantages to incline bench?
 

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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flabbergasped? said:
Sup all,

I'm still following Rippetoe's starting strength guide. I had to stop lifting for break and my show week, but I'm diving back into it. My bench max was 165 when I stopped, but I've restarted at 135. I figure I'll add 5-10 a week and catch up fast.

This is all on flat bench. Are there any advantages to incline bench?
Less weight on incline but works the upper pecs better which is the main region that gives the manifestion of chest-shoulder mass.

MM
 

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Flabbergasped? said:
Sup all,

I'm still following Rippetoe's starting strength guide. I had to stop lifting for break and my show week, but I'm diving back into it. My bench max was 165 when I stopped, but I've restarted at 135. I figure I'll add 5-10 a week and catch up fast.

This is all on flat bench. Are there any advantages to incline bench?
when on rippetoe, use his exercises. do not substitute. he's been doing this longer than you have.
 

Flabbergasped?

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He doesn't specify flat bench, that's why I'm asking. He just says "bench press".
 

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Flabbergasped? said:
He doesn't specify flat bench, that's why I'm asking. He just says "bench press".
That means Flat Bench, since when has 'Bench Press' meant anything else.

MM
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so incline = better for shoulder upper pecs right? it'll give it that broad look.
 
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