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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

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Incline vs. flat bench on Rippetoe's?

Flabbergasped?

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Sup all,

I'm still following Rippetoe's starting strength guide. I had to stop lifting for break and my show week, but I'm diving back into it. My bench max was 165 when I stopped, but I've restarted at 135. I figure I'll add 5-10 a week and catch up fast.

This is all on flat bench. Are there any advantages to incline bench?
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Flabbergasped? said:
Sup all,

I'm still following Rippetoe's starting strength guide. I had to stop lifting for break and my show week, but I'm diving back into it. My bench max was 165 when I stopped, but I've restarted at 135. I figure I'll add 5-10 a week and catch up fast.

This is all on flat bench. Are there any advantages to incline bench?
Less weight on incline but works the upper pecs better which is the main region that gives the manifestion of chest-shoulder mass.

MM
 

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Flabbergasped? said:
Sup all,

I'm still following Rippetoe's starting strength guide. I had to stop lifting for break and my show week, but I'm diving back into it. My bench max was 165 when I stopped, but I've restarted at 135. I figure I'll add 5-10 a week and catch up fast.

This is all on flat bench. Are there any advantages to incline bench?
when on rippetoe, use his exercises. do not substitute. he's been doing this longer than you have.
 

Flabbergasped?

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He doesn't specify flat bench, that's why I'm asking. He just says "bench press".
 

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Flabbergasped? said:
He doesn't specify flat bench, that's why I'm asking. He just says "bench press".
That means Flat Bench, since when has 'Bench Press' meant anything else.

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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so incline = better for shoulder upper pecs right? it'll give it that broad look.
 
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