"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
EyeBRollin
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Not only did she get a free ride through law school, but she now as a pathway to a lucrative career via the son of the senior partner.
This is a classic example of women sleeping their way to the top, but men are too naive to see things for what they are.
Boyos, women don't operate based on honor like men, they operate based on self-interest.
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Depends on the lady bro. My wife is currently doing the same thing with me except she's the simp.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dust 2 Dust
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This is why you dont get involved with low IL women. I guarantee this woman was giving off red flags but the guy ignored them. 6 months after the wedding you'll be posting essays on r/DeadBedrooms on how women these days have low sex drives.
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Depends on the state actually. I believe New York the license could be considered marital property considering husband put her through law school. I don’t practice there so I’m not sure. The state I am in this wouldn’t be the case and husband would be fu*ked.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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It's not "her" debt anymore it's "our" debt....... (Chris Hogan makes this corny azz statement all the time "you need to start speaking French......it's we we we.....(sic oui )
It's does appear to be the female that predominately carries the heavy student debt....
..and it does appear to be the female that predominately pushes for divorce...
Cash and prizes.
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You would too when given the option. Almost guaranteed.You're not honorable if you're never tempted.
Everyone operates from self-interest. And if they don't, well, they probably should.
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For the same reason a lot of men let their women buy whatever they want - e.g., Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis going on her $1M shopping days (in the '60s
) - it's part of the deal.For the same reason a lot of men StepFatherMax; to actually pay off the debt quickly in the marriage would be like StepChildAdoptionMaxxing.
RangerMIke
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When a chick is 'using you' she can not differentiate her feelings for you. She really thinks she loves you... REALLY. But it is in the moment. When a chick says "I don't love you anymore.", she really does mean that... men can never really understand it, because love for us is VERY different.
So... how do you do this... how do you screen out chicks that only 'love' you in the moment. It's simple... you have to be selfish and demand reciprocity. One common denominator with chicks that are just meeting her temporary need is that they are not willing to work for you, other than maybe giving you sex. A chick that is just using you WILL NOT reciprocate... it is that simple.
Divorce and breakups during this pandemic is on the rise... why? Because chicks were with dudes that are no longer meeting her needs... and they are attaching themselves to dudes that can... and when this pandemic ends guess what.... those guys will be out.
Serenity
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I respectfully disagree. This level of cynical behavior isn't just an "oopsie". Women are NOT completely devoid of willpower, empathy and control. You're giving women a free pass here, one they do not deserve. This particular woman should definitely be held accountable.
Yes, the guy could definitely have saved himself a lot of trouble if he had been less naive, but the woman is the one guilty of wrongdoing. Just because someone is naive doesn't mean it's right to take advantage of that. What you're indirectly saying is that women are well within their rights to abuse the fvck out of men, because they can't help themselves?! This is absolutely unacceptable.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RangerMIke
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Well... you have two choices... you can stand in the rain and shake your fist at the sky angry that you are getting rained on... or you can use and umbrella.
Don't get me wrong, I think our family courts are steaming piles of cr@p, but as long as women outnumber men, our laws are not going to change. There is nothing a single man can do to change this, men's rights activists, while I agree with much of what they say, are ultimately wasting their time. You will not be able to snap your fingers and make women act like men.
A man is, by and large, on his own. You can not control what others do, but you can control what you do.
Serenity
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Snap of my fingers? No. It took feminism well over 100 years to get to this point, but they got here. So, give up or better get started?
RickTheToad
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Mr. Hogan doesn't practice what he preaches with Dave Ramsey. He was fired a few weeks ago. Guess he was fvcking a new b!tch or something since apparently he's went through a divorce and is having some fun.
Financial Expert and Dave Ramsey Protegé Chris Hogan Leaves Ramsey Solutions Amid Lawsuit
Ex-Wife of Ramsey Radio Host Chris Hogan Says Apology Fails to Acknowledge Those “Profoundly Hurt”
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