"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A 25 year old man had a desire to ‘punish’ women who had long rejected him. So he decided it was BEST for him to take a motor vehicle and KILL 10 people and INJURE 14. Most of his victims were WOMEN.

https://www.cp24.com/news/facebook-...-profile-references-incel-rebellion-1.3899606

I’m sure a lot of people his age feel the same way. There is probably nothing, nothing else in the world that would have drove him to do this. Only constant rejection by decent looking young girls caused a 25 year old to commit multiple multiple murders.

Too bad he didn’t find Sosuave. We could have told him to be ‘alpha’ and not value these young good looking girls, right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A 25 year old man had a desire to ‘punish’ women who had long rejected him. So he decided it was BEST for him to take a motor vehicle and KILL 10 people and INJURE 14. Most of his victims were WOMEN.

https://www.cp24.com/news/facebook-...-profile-references-incel-rebellion-1.3899606

I’m sure a lot of people his age feel the same way. There is probably nothing, nothing else in the world that would have drove him to do this. Only constant rejection by decent looking young girls caused a 25 year old to commit multiple multiple murders.

Too bad he didn’t find Sosuave. We could have told him to be ‘alpha’ and not value these young good looking girls, right?
Lol. Most guys on SS are still angry at women. Being on SS simply gives you an ability to voice your frustration. It’s not a cure all.
 

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Just the word "incel" is a complete lie. It's not involuntary, they're just super sh!tty guys and blame women instead of realizing just how sh!tty they are and do something about it. If I were a woman I too would stay the fvck away from these self proclaimed incels, because they are socially destructive and refuse to learn.

Blaming women for a man's loss of self-control is insane. You can look at it from one side and say "he did this because he got rejected, thus men should not be rejected". You can look at it from the other side and understand he was rejected because he was a fvcking douchebag and would totally have been abusive to any girl who complied with him.

These guys are the ultimate losers, I understand what drives them, but it's absolutely not an excuse in any way. It's ridiculously irresponsible.
 

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I had 20 friends put themselves on "safe" in the facebook.(i am from the area)

The guy likely a youth who didnt know what to do in his life.

He was socially retard.

A jail is a much better place than taking your own life and responsability in your hands.
Alot of mass killing USA shooter would relate
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SS would have made him realize what was going on in his life. It's Too bad he Didn't become a member.

Another beta bites the dust.
 

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A 25 year old man had a desire to ‘punish’ women who had long rejected him. So he decided it was BEST for him to take a motor vehicle and KILL 10 people and INJURE 14. Most of his victims were WOMEN.

https://www.cp24.com/news/facebook-...-profile-references-incel-rebellion-1.3899606

I’m sure a lot of people his age feel the same way. There is probably nothing, nothing else in the world that would have drove him to do this. Only constant rejection by decent looking young girls caused a 25 year old to commit multiple multiple murders.

Too bad he didn’t find Sosuave. We could have told him to be ‘alpha’ and not value these young good looking girls, right?
I knew it!! As soon as I saw the first person hit was a stunningly hot woman I figured it was some loser who was mad because he couldnt get dates with them...
 

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One article I was reading says it all starts with pua and the manosphere, and"those guys" eventually get fed up when pua/msnosphere tactics fail, and then turn into angry incels.

Claimed this is exactly what WILL happen to y'all.
 
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One article I was reading says it all starts with pua and the manosphere, and"those guys" eventually get fed up when pua/msnosphere tactics fail, and then turn into angry incels.

Claimed this is exactly what WILL happen to y'all.
Thats because they try and learn pick up tactics and lines instead of bettering themselves and actually learning and embracing the mindset behind it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I knew it!! As soon as I saw the first person hit was a stunningly hot woman I figured it was some loser who was mad because he couldnt get dates with them...
I don't know if she was the first victim, I think she was the first victim I'd.

I live two subway stops from where this happened.
 

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An article said a motive was still yet to be determined yet it mentioned that he alluded to Eliot Rodger and was an angry Incel.

The guy was socially awkward af and didn’t talk to anyone. But at the same time I do have some empathy because some people are born like that and can’t help it. If you were born with autism, would you want someone calling you socially retarded? The world is ruthless sometimes.
 

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A 25 year old man had a desire to ‘punish’ women who had long rejected him. So he decided it was BEST for him to take a motor vehicle and KILL 10 people and INJURE 14. Most of his victims were WOMEN.

https://www.cp24.com/news/facebook-...-profile-references-incel-rebellion-1.3899606

I’m sure a lot of people his age feel the same way. There is probably nothing, nothing else in the world that would have drove him to do this. Only constant rejection by decent looking young girls caused a 25 year old to commit multiple multiple murders.

Too bad he didn’t find Sosuave. We could have told him to be ‘alpha’ and not value these young good looking girls, right?
The only place i like to punish women is the bedroom
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The incels in that link want the government to “outlaw Chad for having multiple partners.” LMAO

Not on my dime.
What strikes me is that this is all a level of affirmation about how valuable men see women.
 

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What strikes me is that this is all a level of affirmation about how valuable men see women.
When you are starving even a moldy tomato looks good to eat
 
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What strikes me is that this is all a level of affirmation about how valuable men see women.
Why? Because we can't have sex without them?

A bowl of rice is worth everything to a guy who is starving, and worth practically nothing to someone who just ate.

It's pretty pathetic that the only value your gender has is a hole between their legs. Back in caveman times, cavemen would trade food to cavewomen for sex. That's the only way cavewomen survived and the only thing they had to offer to the group.
 

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Why? Because we can't have sex without them?

A bowl of rice is worth everything to a guy who is starving, and worth practically nothing to someone who just ate.

It's pretty pathetic that the only value your gender has is a hole between their legs. Back in caveman times, cavemen would trade food to cavewomen for sex. That's the only way cavewomen survived and the only thing they had to offer to the group.
Man wasn't passing pvssy around. You see the instinct is to fight or kill to keep the other from having it. Anything other than that is social conditioning.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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