"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Incantations/phrases you guys say to yourself?

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I was wondering if anyone did this. It kind of stems from the idea of Pook's 'as you think, you shall become' requote. I was tried this before and found it to work very well actually, but it takes time and consistency. Anyone have experiences with doing so?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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They work better when I say them a few times, and "let them go" I don't obsess or worry if they come true or not. I just put the mantra "out there" after repeating it to myself in certain situations I feel I need a little boost for.
I have a few I say, Be confident, mentally strong, creative, funny, relaxed, intelligent, good looking....etc
 

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They call these affirmations. Where you repeat positive phrases to yourself trying to imbed them in your personality.

I have a few I say, Be confident, mentally strong, creative, funny, relaxed, intelligent, good looking....etc
I'll say similar things to myself before entering a situation, more as a reminder to myself than trying to convince or hypnotize myself.

I've tried using a few affirmations, but I find it boring so I don't usually stick with it. I'm a pretty positive person anyway.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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