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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Incantations/phrases you guys say to yourself?

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I was wondering if anyone did this. It kind of stems from the idea of Pook's 'as you think, you shall become' requote. I was tried this before and found it to work very well actually, but it takes time and consistency. Anyone have experiences with doing so?
 

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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They work better when I say them a few times, and "let them go" I don't obsess or worry if they come true or not. I just put the mantra "out there" after repeating it to myself in certain situations I feel I need a little boost for.
I have a few I say, Be confident, mentally strong, creative, funny, relaxed, intelligent, good looking....etc
 

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They call these affirmations. Where you repeat positive phrases to yourself trying to imbed them in your personality.

I have a few I say, Be confident, mentally strong, creative, funny, relaxed, intelligent, good looking....etc
I'll say similar things to myself before entering a situation, more as a reminder to myself than trying to convince or hypnotize myself.

I've tried using a few affirmations, but I find it boring so I don't usually stick with it. I'm a pretty positive person anyway.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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