fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
A human male. Does a dog have to prove its dogness or a tree its treeness or the sky its skyness? Do what you want. Don't worry about what people expect of you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
In your opinion what is a MAN?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Dude you can believe in God if you want to as I do, but Don Juan was a thug, *****monger, and maybe even a rapist. Pretty much a big @sshole. And yes he was a man.
zekko
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I think you have a good answer here. But wouldn't anyone who knows this guy say that he is a nice guy? I don't mean "Nice Guy" the way PUAs define it, I'm talking about the real world. Out in the real world, if asked, wouldn't people say this is a nice guy? What I'm saying is you don't have to be an @sshole to be a man, or to attract women.KockyMcGoodstroke said:
There is no way to prove or disprove the existence of God, which makes it a philosophical question. How do you choose to look at life? People will believe what they want to believe, so I would put that argument aside.
Inst this OBVIOUS?? Didn't we learned anything from our childhood??
a Man is "...tranquil as a forest, but on fire within..."
"BE a MAN!! you must be swift as a coursing river,
BE a MAN!! with all the force of a great typhoon
BE a MAN!! with all the strength of a raging fire
BE a MAN!! mysterious as the dark side of the moon!!"
a Man is "...tranquil as a forest, but on fire within..."
"BE a MAN!! you must be swift as a coursing river,
BE a MAN!! with all the force of a great typhoon
BE a MAN!! with all the strength of a raging fire
BE a MAN!! mysterious as the dark side of the moon!!"
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perseverance
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A man is always honest, a man stands up for what he believes in and never once backs down or apologises for his beliefs, nor his values. A man isn't afraid to be take responsibilities for actions - that to me is what makes a man a man.
I consider myself to be that man.
I consider myself to be that man.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Someone who does what he wants and doesn't give a fuark what anyone else thinks about his actions