fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
A human male. Does a dog have to prove its dogness or a tree its treeness or the sky its skyness? Do what you want. Don't worry about what people expect of you.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
In your opinion what is a MAN?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Dude you can believe in God if you want to as I do, but Don Juan was a thug, *****monger, and maybe even a rapist. Pretty much a big @sshole. And yes he was a man.
zekko
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I think you have a good answer here. But wouldn't anyone who knows this guy say that he is a nice guy? I don't mean "Nice Guy" the way PUAs define it, I'm talking about the real world. Out in the real world, if asked, wouldn't people say this is a nice guy? What I'm saying is you don't have to be an @sshole to be a man, or to attract women.KockyMcGoodstroke said:
There is no way to prove or disprove the existence of God, which makes it a philosophical question. How do you choose to look at life? People will believe what they want to believe, so I would put that argument aside.
Inst this OBVIOUS?? Didn't we learned anything from our childhood??
a Man is "...tranquil as a forest, but on fire within..."
"BE a MAN!! you must be swift as a coursing river,
BE a MAN!! with all the force of a great typhoon
BE a MAN!! with all the strength of a raging fire
BE a MAN!! mysterious as the dark side of the moon!!"
a Man is "...tranquil as a forest, but on fire within..."
"BE a MAN!! you must be swift as a coursing river,
BE a MAN!! with all the force of a great typhoon
BE a MAN!! with all the strength of a raging fire
BE a MAN!! mysterious as the dark side of the moon!!"
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perseverance
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A man is always honest, a man stands up for what he believes in and never once backs down or apologises for his beliefs, nor his values. A man isn't afraid to be take responsibilities for actions - that to me is what makes a man a man.
I consider myself to be that man.
I consider myself to be that man.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Someone who does what he wants and doesn't give a fuark what anyone else thinks about his actions