"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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in trouble - what do i do

kman1

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here's the short version -

- went out to a club last weekend and got wasted
- ended up making out pretty seriously with this girl that i never knew before and thought was just a stranger there
- turns out she knows a bunch of my friends
- when i came to my senses, i realized that i wasn't interested, and i sorta just left without saying anything to her
- she's been hunting me down and even called me

so, here's the question - i will most likely see this girl again, and we have common friends. how can i 1.) get rid of her without hurting her feelings and 2.) not look like a total prick?

i know i'm a prick but hey, before you give me crap, ask yourself if you ever did something you regret while you were drinking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blinkwatt

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Just say "Hey I was drunk and just having fun. Don't think too much into it."
 

hope7

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im pretty sure if you go down on her, all will be forgiven.
 
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