"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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in trouble - what do i do

kman1

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here's the short version -

- went out to a club last weekend and got wasted
- ended up making out pretty seriously with this girl that i never knew before and thought was just a stranger there
- turns out she knows a bunch of my friends
- when i came to my senses, i realized that i wasn't interested, and i sorta just left without saying anything to her
- she's been hunting me down and even called me

so, here's the question - i will most likely see this girl again, and we have common friends. how can i 1.) get rid of her without hurting her feelings and 2.) not look like a total prick?

i know i'm a prick but hey, before you give me crap, ask yourself if you ever did something you regret while you were drinking.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blinkwatt

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Just say "Hey I was drunk and just having fun. Don't think too much into it."
 

hope7

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im pretty sure if you go down on her, all will be forgiven.
 
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