"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In today's hypergamic dystopia, is there now a Wall for males at age 22, or even 18?

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I was listening to this (at 1:49:13, which the video link should start at):


my opinion: These guy are correct that there is a correlation between being successful at those younger ages than later (i.e., because women in high school, and even college, pretty much only date their fellow students - as opposed to post-college women, who begin to consider a much larger range of men), and ascension is difficult, at least in the West. :mad:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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For once DJ I disagree with you

If you stay in shape, keep hair on your head, and are not ugly.. you will be attractive to women way into middle age

Idris Elba is nearly 50. No one cared who he was when he was 25. The same goes for most male celebs. They get better and better because they stay on point

Celebs understand looksmaxing more than anyone. Gordon Ramsey is Alpha, yet has botox fillers and hair replacement
 

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For once DJ I disagree with you

If you stay in shape, keep hair on your head, and are not ugly.. you will be attractive to women way into middle age

Idris Elba is nearly 50. No one cared who he was when he was 25. The same goes for most male celebs. They get better and better because they stay on point

Celebs understand looksmaxing more than anyone. Gordon Ramsey is Alpha, yet has botox fillers and hair replacement

Married again 2 years after :D
 

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For once DJ I disagree with you

If you stay in shape, keep hair on your head, and are not ugly.. you will be attractive to women way into middle age

Idris Elba is nearly 50. No one cared who he was when he was 25. The same goes for most male celebs. They get better and better because they stay on point

Celebs understand looksmaxing more than anyone. Gordon Ramsey is Alpha, yet has botox fillers and hair replacement
OK, men that develop some fame cred will ascend. The men who have "stayed on point" but failed to gain fame are not in this category. And the only kind of fame most men could guarantee themselves to get is that of being a psycho killer. :rolleyes:
 
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For once DJ I disagree with you

If you stay in shape, keep hair on your head, and are not ugly.. you will be attractive to women way into middle age

Idris Elba is nearly 50. No one cared who he was when he was 25. The same goes for most male celebs. They get better and better because they stay on point

Celebs understand looksmaxing more than anyone. Gordon Ramsey is Alpha, yet has botox fillers and hair replacement
Yup. The hairpill is a key factor though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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