"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In this thread we introduce ourselves.

Accension

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I feel it a great idea to introduce ourselves.

This will be my first post here, I've been lurking for a long time and there's a lot of you I recognise and follow.

Hello I'm 18 year old Accension from great Australia.
Accension is the process of kindling a fire alight, it's a metaphor for the phase of my life I'm in.
I don't just feel like wood laying there and doing nothing, I feel as if something good is about to happen as if I could catch ablaze at any given time.

Pseudo-philosophy aside, I've finished an AFC's journey long ago and am on my own path.
It's like you're not poor with women anymore but you still don't have the high standards you'd like.

I'm that guy, confident in almost everything excluding CA.
The guy that's decent with women but still doesn't have any numbers typical of a PUA.

Apart from small talk on the street, I've never done an approach before.
I'll probably start a boot camp journal here to get that part of my life sorted, quit smoking and eat more.

Anyhow I'd really like to hear your stories.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Commandante said:
If you quit smoking you will gain weight even without eating more.
Doublely effective.

Edit: Also, this is getting views but no replies. That means everyone is just following trends. I have a theory that if one person introduces themselves here, everyone else will.
Are you the sort to get the ball rolling?

I'd appreciate it, really I would.
 
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Hey I'm Asasione from Kenya. I'm currently in an LTR done the works in terms of experience, approaches, ONS etc. I'm 21.

Asasione is simply Asassin merged with One, I felt it describes my gaming well.
 

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While this was a good idea for some of the members here to learn more about each other,you're a bit too late with it.

Cola already beat you to the punch with his thread HERE.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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