"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In this thread we introduce ourselves.

Accension

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I feel it a great idea to introduce ourselves.

This will be my first post here, I've been lurking for a long time and there's a lot of you I recognise and follow.

Hello I'm 18 year old Accension from great Australia.
Accension is the process of kindling a fire alight, it's a metaphor for the phase of my life I'm in.
I don't just feel like wood laying there and doing nothing, I feel as if something good is about to happen as if I could catch ablaze at any given time.

Pseudo-philosophy aside, I've finished an AFC's journey long ago and am on my own path.
It's like you're not poor with women anymore but you still don't have the high standards you'd like.

I'm that guy, confident in almost everything excluding CA.
The guy that's decent with women but still doesn't have any numbers typical of a PUA.

Apart from small talk on the street, I've never done an approach before.
I'll probably start a boot camp journal here to get that part of my life sorted, quit smoking and eat more.

Anyhow I'd really like to hear your stories.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Accension

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Commandante said:
If you quit smoking you will gain weight even without eating more.
Doublely effective.

Edit: Also, this is getting views but no replies. That means everyone is just following trends. I have a theory that if one person introduces themselves here, everyone else will.
Are you the sort to get the ball rolling?

I'd appreciate it, really I would.
 
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Hey I'm Asasione from Kenya. I'm currently in an LTR done the works in terms of experience, approaches, ONS etc. I'm 21.

Asasione is simply Asassin merged with One, I felt it describes my gaming well.
 

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While this was a good idea for some of the members here to learn more about each other,you're a bit too late with it.

Cola already beat you to the punch with his thread HERE.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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