“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In the words of Bruce Lee

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"Loneliness is only an opportunity to cut adrift and find yourself. In solitude you are least alone."

Being alone is not so bad after all. Took me a while to understand this.

I started to understand this phenomenon after I broke up and went through hell with my BPD ex. Even though I am an introvert I am not completely unsocial just the thought of being alone scared me and depressed me. I Took back control of my emotions and watt I want to accomplish in the future. Through the process the more I grew within this solitude the more I Understood this quote.

I started grasping it when I realized that goals, your future, and accomplishments are far more important than woman so that facilitated me to enjoy and embrace this solitude. I wish I had this mind set years ago. Time completely alone gave me light and energy that I never would have had without solitude. In this moments alone I am most alive and myself when I am alone. I know that sounds strange and un-American but I feel all of my loose ends grow together when I reside in a healthy space of reflection. Ideas spark and surface when there is room between thoughts. My whole demeanor shifts from raised shoulder blades, frantic answer searches and obligatory action to easy breathing, expansive thinking and thoughtful action. I become me, in the truest sense.

Embrace your Solitude. Once you do, it will help you on your DJ'in game. They go hand in hand with each other. If you loose a plate, a girl flakes, you wont give a fvck. We are going to make it brahhhsss.
 

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Yes. Being alone does not mean being lonely. There is a biological reason that we pair-bond and that is to keep the species alive. "falling in love" is a chemical ****tail in your brain. Monogamy and long-term monogamy is just a made up human construct. People have actually been conditioned on how to feel about it from birth. When you realize the truth of things you can then love from your true self rather than your attached ego-self.
 

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Uplifting post. Masterful mind that Bruce Lee had.
 

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Couldn't agree more, a companion is nice, but I always do my best work, my most improving, and take action on my goals when I'm in solitude. I do enjoy being social, but I accomplish far more and feel more in tune with myself when I can just kick back and do my own thing. :D
 
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