In the beginning...

[wifehunter]

I feel like I'm close to the top of my game and looking back...

I've noticed that coming off as "on center" / "non needy" from the first few interactions, seems to leave little room for game playing / testing.

Anyone else notice this?

Start well, end well???

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I feel like I'm close to the top of my game and looking back...

I've noticed that coming off as "on center" / "non needy" from the first few interactions, seems to leave little room for game playing / testing.

Anyone else notice this?

Start well, end well???

What got you there?

 

[wifehunter]

What got you there?

1. Christ and all the benefits that follow (love, joy, peace, patience, self control, wisdom etc. Aka spiritual gifts.)
2. time
3. experience
4. being a ladies man
5. failing, and learning from failure
6. Ignoring the rules, and only looking at them as guide lines.
7. Being friendly, and showing love to those who haven't earned it, aka strangers.
8. Forsaking foolish people (boundaries / discernment)
9. Having lots of interests
10. Having lots of friends

I'm very thankful!!!

Thanks for asking!

 

[Roober]

If you come accross as a strong man, her tests will be minor and minimal. Once you begin to lose frame, the tests will become much more severe and more frequent. This end product of the latter situation is the needy guy that chases. More tests = more neediness. She is basically creating the scarcity that strong men naturally create.

Thinking back now, this became especially prevalent in my last relationship. She nevver tested me the first couple months, then it gradually got worse and worse...

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Good work OP. I'm starting to get the same. A chick I was working with today started off being friendly and after an hour was basically giggling at everything I said. I'm finding this more and more with almost everyone I meet.

When we go out in to the world to give rather than being in need or looking to take, everything is easier. I've recently heard about approaching women; look at it as inspiring them.

I feel like I'm close to the top of my game and looking back.

Better not get complacent. Next week you'll meet a bird who really blows your mind and then you'll start learning a whole load more lessons.

 

[wifehunter]

Better not get complacent. Next week you'll meet a bird who really blows your mind and then you'll start learning a whole load more lessons.

Nah, my father was the poster boy for complacent. He's the anti-rolemodel. My personality won't allow for that.

I hope I do meet someone who challenges me. It could happen any day now with Uber. There's a constant flow of random stunning ladies in my life.

I've been at this for so long, it seems the typical patterns repeat over and over, and it seems like there is nothing new. If I mess up, I'm quick to notice and adjust.

 

[BreezyB84]

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1. Christ and all the benefits that follow (love, joy, peace, patience, self control, wisdom etc. Aka spiritual gifts.)
2. time
3. experience
4. being a ladies man
5. failing, and learning from failure
6. Ignoring the rules, and only looking at them as guide lines.
7. Being friendly, and showing love to those who haven't earned it, aka strangers.
8. Forsaking foolish people (boundaries / discernment)
9. Having lots of interests
10. Having lots of friends

I'm very thankful!!!

Thanks for asking!

How long has the process been for your and are there any particular trials that helped you in particular ? ?

 

[wifehunter]

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How long has the process been for your and are there any particular trials that helped you in particular ? ?

Sure, I started around 1997, after a failed date with a childhood friend. I was sure it would work with her...I was dead wrong, result failure!!!

A hit a point of feeling hopeless and not knowing what to do. So, me being the research geek that I am, I started looking for answers. Praying, searching for wisdom...

After reading F.J. Shark's book "how to be the jerk women love" athough I don't subscribe to all his views, my perspective changed! My eyes opened! I wasn't blind anymore!!!!
I started experimenting with ladies at work, and results followed. Attraction became fun. Instead of hating women, I learned to appreciate them. The process became entertainment. And, I've been refining my "system" ever since.

 

[wifehunter]

An hour ago, I met an adorable Mexican girl at the 99 cents store checkout.

As I walked up to the checkout I said "by the way, you are adorable." she smiled and then proceeded to start playing with her hair. After I paid, we locked eyes and smiled, then I told her to have a goodnight.

Darkhaired girls get to me, something mysterious behind those eyes.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I told her to have a goodnight.

Lame. Should have told her to meet you for 'a drink' later

 

[Bingo-Player]

I feel like I'm close to the top of my game and looking back...

I've noticed that coming off as "on center" / "non needy" from the first few interactions, seems to leave little room for game playing / testing.

Anyone else notice this?

Start well, end well???

you've probably just learnt to screen women better , i can sniff a time waster out from 50 miles away these days

 

[wifehunter]

Lame. Should have told her to meet you for 'a drink' later

Appropriate, I'm not looking to get laid.